It’s so warm, finally. Compared to the weather here so far, the spring has really come! Yesterday I didn’t plan on taking outfit pictures, but then I thought why not, because the reality is that I’m not wearing heels every day…
Nyt tuntuvat ilmat jo niin lämpimiltä! En suunnitellut eilen ottavani rentoilupäivän asusta kuvia, mutta hetken mielijohteesta otinpa kuitenkin. Todellisuus on kuitenkin se, että mukavuus usein voittaa tyylikkyyden, enkä mä joka päivä korkkareissa ja hameissa tosiaankaan kulje.
Lately I’ve been thinking about the illusion that blog gives of one’s life. It feels funny reading a comment saying that I have the perfect life. In a way flattering but still weird and somehow wrong. I just need to say it here, that I certainly don’t have that.
When I read magazines and blogs etc I try to just get inspired, rather than get unsatisfied with my own life. I think that good energy creates more good energy. That’s why I like keeping my blog as a place for the good things, keeping it positive. But there is a real life behind it, like there is behind every blog. I don’t go grocery shopping with my makeup done and in high heels. There are many days that I don’t even consider taking pictures, half the time my hair is a mess and my clothes are just basic jeans and t-shirts and dirty converse shoes. My life isn’t particularly glamorous, but I like capturing the pretty things here, the good-hair-days and the little everyday life luxuries.
Oon viimeaikoina miettinyt illuusiota, jonka blogillaan itsestään antaa. Tuntuu hassulta lukea kommentti, jossa elämääni pidetään täydellisenä. Tavallaan imartelevaa, mutta enemmän outoa ja jotenkin väärää. Pitää muistaa, että jokaisen blogin takana on oikea elämä, joka voi olla millainen tahansa, ja johon kuuluu kaikki ne arkisimmatkin ongelmat. Tämä asu ehkä inspasi kirjottamaan tästä aiheesta, koska monena päivänä en edes harkitse asukuvien ottamista, hiukset on yksi iso sotku ja likaiset tennarit eivät kovin hohdokkaat. Perusfarkut ja hupparit on mulle silti rakkaita! Usein tänne blogiin kuitenkin tallennan niitä hyviä hiuspäiviä ja elämän pieniä luksusjuttuja.
Kun itse luen lehtiä ja blogeja, koitan ennemmin inspiroitua niistä, kuin alkaa vertailemaan omaan elämään ja tulemaan tyytymättömäksi. Positiivisuus vain lisää positiivisuutta. Siksi haluan pitää blogini innostuksena itsellenikin kaikesta kivasta.
Another reason why this is a place for the good things, is that I have to remember that anyone can read the things I write here. If I could I’d want to share so much more with my readers, but it would be too risky. It’s okay if someone recognizes me on the street and knows what I ate that morning or wore the last day or some new things I just bought. But if anyone who walks by could know my personal stuff/problems/whatever is going on, it would be scary and distressing. And I don’t ever want to feel that way with my blog, this is a lifestyle for me, and I have to think things in a long run. I’ll stop here, the point here was that my life isn’t perfect, just needed to say it here!
Toinen syy, miksei täällä syvällisemmin elämääni pohdita, on se että mun täytyy muistaa että tätä voi lukea kuka hyvänsä. Usein tekisi mieli avautua vaikka mistä, mutta olen löytänyt linjan joka mulle toimii, ja sillä mennään. On ihan okei, jos vastaan tuleva ihminen tietäisi mitä söin sinä aamuna, puin päälle edellisenä päivänä, tai mitä viimeksi shoppailin. Mutta jos kuka tahansa vastaantuleva voisi tietää henkkoht murheistani, ongelmistani tai syvällisemmistä ajatuksistani, olisi se ahdistavaa ja pelottavaa. Enkä sitä riskiä halua ottaa, että bloggaamisesta tulisi ahdistavaa. Tämä on mulle elämäntapa, joten täytyy miettiä pidemmällä tähtäimellä. Varmaan deletoisin blogin samantien jos avautuisin täällä jostain mitä jälkeenpäin katuisin. No, nyt meni vähän aiheen ohi niin lopetan tähän. 😀 Pointti oli ettei elämäni ole täydellistä, piti päästä vain sanomaan se jollain tavalla!
Boyfriend jeans, converse shoes, Gap hoodie and dirty hair that was saved by half a bottle of dry shampoo.
Boyfriend farkut, Converset, Gapin huppari, ja likainen tukka jonka puolikas pulollinen kuivashampoota pelasti.
Reminder: Win 500 euros to spend at Mango and send me to Barcelona! Vote your favorite look here just by one click (or two, first “vote” then “finish entry”). I’m so close to the first place, EVERY vote counts. 🙂 When you vote you’ll see the voting situation, it’s really exciting!! And many thanks to you guys who gave your vote for me, means the world to me.
Vanessa says
This post is wonderful, I think readers should get reminded about that more often. Of course you only share good things because you want to make other people happy and inspire them through your blog. That is why you don’t post an outfit post when you are sick and just lie in your bed and wear a pyjama.
By the way you look great in that oufit, that makes you so “normal” haha. But maybe that is not what you want to post on an everyday basis and that is your choice – your blog.
Love it.
xoxo Vanessa
Christina Klein says
Amazing outfit and u!
Kisses.
xx
Christina Klein
http://bychristina.blogspot.com/
marianna says
Thank you Vanessa for the lovely comment 🙂
Aleksandra says
LOVE your style! 🙂
http://www.sztukastudiowania.pl/ says
It’s so nice of you that you wrote all of that. The fact is, when bloggers are trying to write only about positive things, it’s really possible that someone would understand that as a ,,perfect life”. You can’t fight with that. It’s just how it is 🙂
Anyway I wish you all the best.
Greetings from Poland,
Magda
Chris says
Where did you buy this jeans? It’s amazing, by the way.
marianna says
They’re from Zara 🙂 I love them!
Carmen says
this is such a pretty post 🙂 love what you wrote 🙂
Amna says
you look absolutely gorgeous!
Bonita says
A very inspiring story! 🙂
iliyana says
awesome!
http://glamourgirl-bg.blogspot.com/
be cool says
great jeans! really cool:)
http://mamasaidbecool.blogspot.com/
noush says
I love this casual look 🙂
MIA says
looks nice and comfy!
http://www.diary-of-mia.blogspot.com
Coni says
Hahhaha you look stunning even in jeans and converse! Love this: and dirty hair that was saved by half a bottle of dry shampoo.
marianna says
Hahah aw, thanks! :-* 🙂
Natali says
Great post! Nobody’s life is perfect, that’s just an illusion we try to create/ show on the outside because it’s so much more rewarding to concentrate on the positive things in life than on something bad that’s happening and then make it even worser by over-analyzing it,etc.
It’s great to see you in this kind of easygoing outfit. Nobody can be all made up 0-24 and that would be such a sterile and fake life to lead.
Sometimes there’s no better thing than to spend your day in PJ with your hair in a messy bun and watch a good series or movies over a yummy snacks. It’s not perfect or glamorous bit it surely does feel good and is real life 🙂
http://lartoffashion.blogspot.com
marianna says
I completely agree 🙂 I’m having my hair on a messy bun always when I’m home, plus the PJ’s, my basic home wear 😀 (And not always the prettiest ones, like right now my shirt has holes in it cause it’s so old hahah!)
Thank you for the comment <3
pinkhanger says
You look great anyway 😉 That’s why I love you. You’re beautiful, always smiling, but you’re also normal girl with your own life. That’s so inspiring. Kisses
Katrina says
Dear Marianna,
I’m reading your blog for a while now and I never left a comment. But this time I just have to: this post and your thoughts make you even more likable! keep up the good work!
marianna says
Thank you Katrina, that’s so sweet of you! 🙂
Kasia says
I like every your outfit, even you wearing hoodie and dirty converse shoes !
http://brightlikesun.blogspot.com/
kate says
Thanks so much for being natural. Most bloggers use to pretend to show that their lives are perfect and I’m grateful that you are natural.
Love your blog.
Mireille says
Love your All Stars, most comfy shoes ever!
xoxo Mireille
dresslikemi.com
Anna says
Wow, that’s a really honest post, Marianna. I’m impressed. For sure it’s not nice for you to read such comments, but I like the way you handle it. Nobodys life is perfect, neither yours.
In my opinion a blog is a way to share the good things in life and not the bad – those things you can write down everything in a diary. It’s sad that some people think that you’re materialistic or something, just because they know your name and your blog, but they don’t know anything personal about you. There’s a good quote ‘you know my name, not my story.’ 🙂
This post shows that you’re a normal girl – like the most of your readers and that’s the reason why we love you. I’m sure I am not the only one with this opinion.
I think after today I even love you more. Thank you for being who you are. Never change, you’re perfect just the way you are.
Have a nice and sunny weekend. And I hope you’ll win this trip to Barcelona.
<3
Voguerka says
So well-written dear. I couldn’t agree with you more!
I think that we all appreciate this post and what you wanted to express. And, yes, now you are even more likeable in a way as you opened up a little bit. I’m your fan since forever and that for sure will never change. I love you because you are you – really so natural and true in what you are showing here, on your blog. I can tell that you’d be a very good friend Marianna.
I wish you all the best! And you are going to win this competition! You can see how big is our support for you! Because you are just you.
Kisses xoxo
Daria
http://voguerka.blogspot.com
nancy says
I really enjoyed reading this post! <3
Anonymous says
great post marianna! i really liked reading your thoughts. i’d like to say something too.
i’ve commented a couple of times complaining that your blog is not the same as it was when i started reading it over an year ago. the main thing i criticized was, that i somehow feel that your blog has lost a bit of it’s personality and you have lost your passion for blogging. now when i read this post i somehow looked at the whole thing from another perspective. i think it’s clear you can’t share your whole life with us. as you wrote it would be scary and i’m not sure if i would like to read all your problems. on the other hand it’s boring to read a blog without real content. sometimes i just feel that your entries consist of less marianna and more advertising and you only write out of a duty.
the other thing is the one about the perfect life. as you said there is a huge illusion about what your life is like. thats the same thing with all the other more or less commercial bloggers. i just think that the chances you get provoke a lot of jealousy. now you can of course say, that there is no reason to be jealous and that your life is not perfect and i can totally believe that. but sometimes when i go through the new posts on bloglovin i get almost angry when i see what kind of presents and opportunities all of you get.
let me explain why: you are 22 years old (i’m 21 by the way). you get very expensive designer clothes for free. when you travel you can stay in luxury hotels. you can profit from various collaborations (once you got some food for free, the other time you bleached your teeth and so on). you are still so young and let me say you haven’t worked a lot for that yet. i’m not saying that you aren’t working hard, but compared to many normal people who have to fight for every bit of luxury it seems not that much to.
when i than feel, that you are not putting so much effort in your posts and that you just ask us to vote for for luxury for you it makes me feel like there is something going wrong in this world.
just to clarify: i’m just saying which impression i sometimes get. i’m not saying that you don’t deserve the things you get because you are an huge inspiration to me and that’s obviously the reason why you get collaborations: you have a lot of readers, because you inspire a lot of people with your talent, so your blog is good for advertising. sometimes one just gets the feeling that this whole new blogging culture and system is a bit unfair and over the top and that’s maybe the reason for some not that friedly comments.
xo an faithful reader
Anna says
I agree completely with you. IT;s a trade of and although personal life is desired to be kept personal, there is a certain right that the readers have to get good content out of someone that is profiting from their support.
Agnieszka says
Excellent post. Thanks to that I know you’re not just a pretty and charming, but also have something to say.
Kira says
I love how honest this post is and I wish everyone would be as honest as you are. Yes the problem with blogs and bloggers are that people present themselves in a perfect way only showing the ‘positive and good sides of life’ and that there comes an illusion and nothing really is ‘real’. No almost everything is fake because this is not who the blogger is. No blogger has just what she/he shows on their blog. This is no hate towards you because I really like you and your blog is amazing.
Elise V. says
I think that’s actually an awesome post! Thank you for this
x
Stella says
Dear Marianna,
it so nice what you wrote here and proves again to me that you are my favourite blogger.
I have a fashion blog too and I follow many blogs.
Many times I read comments from girls saying how jealous they are when they see the life of “successful” bloggers. (by successful I mean bloggers with many followers).
I know that this is an illusion and superficial. However, not all girls see that.
I find it sad when they say to other bloggers “you are my role model’. We only see their clothes, style from a blog. We don’t see their lives, real character etc.
So it’s nice that you state that and you keep your private life for yourself.
Too much exposure is never good. Well done for being classy and showing that you have principles and values.
x
Stella from a A Shiny Place
Jenni says
You are so pretty! Even without the high heels 😉
I agree what you have written, it is much more behind a blog than all the glamour we see.
Love your`e blog btw 🙂
Monica says
I’ll admit, I sometimes think bloggers (like you) have an amazing life – the perfect life – but after reading this post, I’ve realized that not everything is perfect, everyone is human too. Thanks for your honesty 🙂
http://www.mochaandmoccasins.blogspot.ca
M.
Olga says
I love your posts, especially the ones in which you write about some things 🙂 You are beautiful and I have nearly the same colour of hair as you have! 😀
Have a great evening! :*
Stella says
PS. you can put your converse in the washing machine and they will be like new!
msanaweber says
love this casual outfit!
sini says
olet ihana ♥
Ana says
Excellent post! Love your blog!
May says
Thanks for you honesty, Marianna! I’m sure that this is not what you wanted to read… but sharing those thoughts with us makes you perfectly human in a very positive way! Because we can only be real humans if we realize that we all make mistakes and have our everyday problems… And this is why your readers will love you even more for this post!
By the way: I like this “messy” style, points out your natural beauty. 🙂
xo
Aylin says
Really liked reading this honest post Marianna!
Specially liked this sentence “When I read magazines and blogs etc I try to just get inspired, rather than get unsatisfied with my own life. I think that good energy creates more good energy.”
xx,
aylinarkac.com
maiju says
Olipa kiva postaus ja kiva kuulla sun mietteitä. 🙂 Olet ihana, Marianna <3
Caro says
Really nice outfit. Now I have to buy converse shoes 😀
J. says
You are always beautiful! Even here with dirty hair))
Love you, Mariannan!
ALCINACUNHA says
Linda como sempre =)
Beijinhos*
http://zabic-garsonke.blogspot.com/ says
I love sneakers! Great outfit btw love your hoodie;)
xoxo
Agata says
These reasons are why I love your blog 🙂 and u don’t post maaaaany times a day but when you blog it’s always perfect.
Paulina says
That’s one of the best post ever here… This is all true. We live in the world where everyone tries to be perfect, to lead perfect life and pretend that they do but at the end of the day we all are the same with similiar problems etc…
And I think that you should post more often everyday outfits just like this! This one is great. I like to wear comfortable clothes and in this kind of I feel the best.
You were my favorite fashion blogger from the very whole beginning and you will always be!
xoxo <3
Iida says
Tosi kiva rento asu 🙂
inmymind-iida.blogspot.fi
Dilek says
I personally think that you are a very cute person. I am aware that that description may sound a tad weird, but that is how I see you. I follow many bloggers and I rarely comment on their blogs, but I usually vote for them when they ask for it or like some page because honestly it costs me nothing. And yes, I am aware that bloggers get a lot of collaborations due to people like me, but not once have I thought that a blogger’s life is perfect. I just consider bloggers who have made it big very lucky people. And again, you look cute in these pictures. 🙂
Sammy says
When I see that you have made a new post, I look forward to read it. Because I know that it will be positive and put me in a good mood, even if the day was rough 🙂
minna says
Olet niin ihana ja aito! 🙂 <3
ILLA says
love your blog!! :))
http://www.h-illa-rious.blogspot.com
Karla Johanna says
Tosi kiva postaus ja ihana asu 🙂 rakastan renntoja vaatteita ja itsekkin pukeudun usein noin 😀
Kiva teksti sun mietteistä 🙂 ymmärrän että et halua paljastaa liikaa omasta elämästäsi.
Terkkuja ja kivaa viikonloppua, Karla <3
Annie says
I love what you said!<3 You are my favorite blogger, the outfit is greaT!
xxx
fashionnmap.blogspot.com
Camille says
That is so true ! Actually I think no ones life is perfect.
Xoxo
http://camilleslifestylediary.blogspot.fr/
Michaela says
Mary, you are a inspiration for my everyday 🙂 I like you as a person, even in this GAP, which I do wear a lot too, beside heels, just as you 🙂 It is very touching, you, writing this article, thank you for it… HAVE A WONDERFUL WEEKEND 🙂
keltaista says
Marianna, I’ve been reading/ following your blog since the very beginning, I guess. And I really like it because I think you have a very casual happy-go-lucky attitude and that you are not overly articifial like some other bloggers and this post has just proved it. But still I think your blog lacks a personal touch. It is becoming a bit monotonous. You only share photos of your outfits + a couple of lines and some other random stuff occasionally. You don’t talk about your life in general, only if smth special happens. I understand that you need some privacy but why not share some facts from your life more often? Your thoughts? Your ideas? Your dreams? Your fears? etc…It is because you only post photos your glamorous self ith full make-up on and all that that creates that distance and makes people (mostly teenage girls) think your life is perfect.
Michaela says
And I hope you will win the Mango thing, youre the best ! VOTE EVERYONE 🙂
Ksenia says
You look great!
Gabrielle says
Love you girl! <3
marianna says
<3 !
Sandra says
I think it’s very nice that you made this blog full of positivity rather than mixing it along with all your personal life. I’ve been reading your blog for a couple years now, and even if sometimes I wish you would share more of your personal life, it doesn’t effect the level of enjoyment I have while reading your posts.:) Sometimes the pictures that you post have got a lot personal feeling in them, and that’s in the way is sharing your personal life, right?:) Keep up the positivity in your blog!
Sandra, xoxo
http://www.agirlinabigbubble.blogspot.co.uk
Lea says
You look amazing on these pictures! Not wearing high-heels really suits you 🙂
http://www.lea–blog.blogspot.de/
lintsu says
Ihana perusrentoilu asu, mutta ei nuo farkut ole mielestäny boyfrendiä nähnytkään.. Ihan normikireet 😀
marianna says
Njaa, kyllä toi farkkujen malli on boyfriend, ehkä kuvat hämää mutta kyllä se selkeesti pussittaa taskujen seuduilta edestä ja takaa kun se haaraosa on olempana 🙂
Kiitos!
Heartbeat says
So beautiful 🙂
Heartbeat says
heartbeat blog
❤
Estela says
love relax outfits, sneakers are always the best for busy days !
Celine says
It’s nice to see some casual photos, a reminder that nobody is dressed to perfection 24/7! You still look gorgeous though 🙂
http://indigobellefashion.blogspot.com.au/
Joannasylvia says
I think many fashion bloggers doing that, sometimes its better just to not share your private life just write abt fashion, things change quickly so sometimes is just keep some things for ourself:)
best of luck its nice to see you in casual look as well!
http://joannasylvia.blogspot.com.es
Lydia says
Its nice to hear that you have your lazy days as well, its so normal and makes me feel not so bad when I spend the whole day in my PJs 😉 I really love the things you post on your blog, very inspirational…and I hope you win the Mango competition, voted for you!
ravenmaidenmaven.blogspot.com
kassie says
I love how you keep it real with your readers, a lot of time blogger would like their readers to think they have it all put together perfectly when they really don’t, thanks for always reminding us who we are and that nobodys perfect
Dorota says
Thank you for that post.
Sanni U says
Ihanan aito postaus! Me likes 🙂
marianna says
Kiitos ihana Sanni! 🙂
Katie says
and that´s the reason why I love your blog. 🙂 you are so inspiring and also a normal girl with a normal life, like any of us. still beautiful. 🙂
Gita says
You don’t need to share more with us, I know what you meant by the things you wrote. Your blog is definitely a happy place and let it stay so, I love it :).
Have a nice weekend :)!
xx
http://gita-oddsandends.blogspot.com/
straehnchenliesel says
I like this post! Thank you for your true words 🙂
By the way: I love the outfit!! In my opinion you can show us more of those casual looks!
marianna says
I’m so happy to hear that, thank you! Maybe I’ll do that too 🙂
Giovi says
Love that!
Victoria Blossom says
Always so chic, even when dressed down! =D x
martabarcelonastyle says
I like a lot those pants!!! 😀
http://martabarcelonastyle.blogspot.com.es
(Red + white outfit)
Miia says
Hyvä postaus! Ja ihana banneri<3
Katarzyna B. says
nice 🙂
Ella says
olipas ihanan erilainen postaus!:) tosi virkistävä
Laura says
Pidän blogistasi todella paljon, vaikutat niin mukavalta ja jalat maassa olevalta. 🙂 ja tuo GAPin huppari on ihana!
Simo says
I think this is one of the most beautiful post you’ve written, deep and simple at the same time 🙂
the setting you’ve given to your blog is correct, if I may make an observation I would say that (even if I do not know you personally) I believe that in you there is much more than just clothes and shopping.
you don’t need to write personal things nor talk about your problems but, as we’ve seen with this post, you are able to give to all of us your reflections about life, observations on your daily life… and IMHO with this outfit you are beautiful as always!
Magdalena says
Love your blog, ive always liked the honesty, and this post just made u even more adorable haha… and i agree, you should post more casual outfits 🙂 Anyways congrats on the blog!
Cristina says
Love your blog!
choolee says
i love the converse 🙂
http://chicchoolee.blogspot.co.at/
mirrkkuu says
Ihana oli lukea sulta vähän syvällisempää tekstiä ! Ja lisäksi niin nappiinsa kuin vaan voi olla(:
elena says
you’re so lovely marianna. i love your blog for its prositive outlook and it really makes me happy so have a look at your blog and your pretty face. i think alot of people know that no ones life is perfect all the time but the way you create your blog is perfect and i can’t wait for more beautiful posts.
xx
Lacturia says
OMG, now when I read this post I like You much more 😉
Nobody has perfect life, it’s just illusion what we want to show on our site 😉
Greeting and kisses,
XOXO
sandy says
After that post I like you more and more! It’s great that you show your readers that you are a normal person and you have normal life with problems. I appreciate that you show us the better side of your life. There were many times when your blog and photos cheer me up. I am one year older than you but I identify with you, your style and things you read and show here. You are smart and cute person. Don’t change. You are awesome!:)
Greeting from Poland.
Saulo Scanor says
simply adorable in the simplest way 0_^
Michelle says
Love this post! Now I’m a bigger fan 🙂
Chantelle says
I’m so glad many big bloggers are writing about this issue lately. People need to be reminded that blogs and magazine life is EDITED – if you wanted a depressing place to go to, then find another website. Some readers complain too much and are way too nosey.
ManonR says
Dear Marianna,
I don’t know if you’ll read my comment, but I’d really like to thank you for writing this post. I do follow a couple fashion blogs, and it’s very rare to read “realistic” posts like this one. I’m the first one to say, as soon as I open one of your post ” oh gosh, i wish i were her, she has such a perfect hair/body/outfit, she is a famous blogger, she is beautiful, oh gosh, my life kinda sucks compared to hers. ” But thanks to your post I realise that you are a normal person ( a beautiful but normal one) and you live your life just like other people. For what that matters, I’m very proud of you for writing this post, and I love your blog, and you just gave me one more reason to keep an eye on your blog for a long time to go.
Thank you, you are a beautiful person. 🙂 xx
Paulina says
Everything what you wear and have is perfect! ♥
Angela says
Really great post. Thanks for writing it and sharing. I think we tend to forget sometimes that behind each post (or blog) is a real person and we never really know what’s going on in each others ‘real’ lives.
I’ve been reading your blog for quite a while now but i think this may be my first comment!
I love your style, dressed up or dressed down (as in this post). Personally i live in my red Converse.
Great blog…Keep it up.
🙂
x
gemma says
Such an amazing post! I look up to you
Come check out my blog: http://www.gemmamonclus.blogspot.com
Love, Gemma
Tammy J says
Nicely said. I found your blog and I enjoy all your inspiring pictures of fashion, food and entertainment. Thanks for sharing the positive vibes of your life.
Teemu Bling says
Ihana postaus, Marianna! 🙂
marianna says
Voi kiitos Teemu! 🙂
Maria says
Niin asiallinen postaus 🙂 Ja rentoiluasut ovat parhaita, vaikka ne harvoin blogiin päätyvät!
marianna says
Kiitos kaunis 🙂
Adorate says
Everything you’ve said in this post is SO true. Thank you Marianna for reminding us all that blogging really is about being inspired not being envious! xxx
Ana says
Well said. Blogging is not about getting people envious!
http://www.bananamoda.com
Azyyati Elias says
This is so great. I love this post because it is so much inspiring to me. I couldn’t agree more 🙂 Love.
jonna says
What an inspiring relaxed style! 🙂
Greetings: http://momo-blogi.blogspot.fi/
Angelique says
This outfit look so confy .
http://angiesxorld.blogspot.fr/
Lentes Rosas says
Thank you for your post and being so honest. Sometimes I feel that fashion blogs are a bit of a reality show where nothing is actually real and it’s all about impressing and pretending. Sometimes bloggers don’t even own the things that they are wearing, they just pass form one blogger to other with the condition that they do a post wearing it. It feels a lot like putting a façade.
I appreciate your honesty. Of course nobody’s life is perfect and it’s totally normal that you want to show the nice things, the positive things, and of course you should keep some other things to yourself, that’s for sure.
I like it that even if your blog is really popular you still seem like a very down to earth girl to me and don’t like to show off or act like a celebrity. You seem very humble and seem to follow your principles really well.
Keep going 🙂
marianna says
I totally agree with you! Can’t stop smiling after reading this, thank you!! 🙂
daria says
I really like that post! You are right, Marianna! 🙂
Coco says
I really love your blog, and today your thoughs too
I voted you, hope you win
http://www.conexcesodequipaje.blogspot.com
marina says
this post is definitely the prettiest ever, your words are so true and to say, that your life is not that perfect how it looks like in your blog, makes you perfect in one way. i love reading your blog and being inspired by you and all your pretty things and thoughts! <3
marianna says
And I love to hear that! Aw, thank you 🙂
Anni says
Love this Comfy Outfit!
– Anni
http://anniwearsprada.blogspot.com
Gabriella says
Hi,
This watch is amazing!! I’ve bought one and I love it.
jane says
Perfect outfit. Your jeans are very nice!!
http://www.janesneakpeak.com/
Marina says
New outfit post plis .
I voted you 😉
Fabiola says
hi marianna. i’ve been following your blog since it started and have never commented until now. this blog post caught me by surprise and i think you said what was needed to be said. very honest and straight to the point! i admire your style because it is so effortless and elegant which is also the same reason i believe some people may be jealous. i think you should take comments from negative people with a grain of salt and keep being amazing and beautiful! you’ll go very far <3
Fabi
marianna says
Hi Fabiola, thank you for your sweet words. I really appreciate it! <3
Victoria says
Gorgeous look doll!
http://vickys-style.com
Marta says
Voted! Love your blog! 🙂
karoline says
this post only made you even more likeable and cuter 🙂
Hanna says
you have no clue how meaningful is to me what you wrote here. although i know that blogging is just a part of life, the better part, and we are all the same people with problems and everything. but i think it is amazing that you wanted to share these thoughts with us. it makes you just as simple girls as we are, but showing us that it doesn’t matter what is going on in life, you still can find happiness and little stuff to get happy about – that’s just amazing. but, trust me, you look a hundred times better in a hoodie and with dirty converses than i do (so probably thinks many girls). In Poland we have this saying: pretty one is pretty in everything. That’s so much true. somehow i cannot convince myself that someone like you can have problems in personal life, you have so much positive energy. keep on doing this, proving everybody that happiness is reachable. xoxo
marianna says
Thank you so much for that comment, you’re too kind! I feel speechless! <3
Sonya says
Great post! I love reading your blog! ;D
Tatjana D. says
Very nice post, thank you 🙂 I think we all want to have a place where is only good things!
xoxo
Camille S. K. Gardès says
Dear Marianna,
it’s been a while now i am reading you, i even think i started reading you since your very first article. This is the first time i post a comment and i think i’ll do it more often. I’m reading you from Morocco and i just wanted you to know that this post made me realize how amazing you were. I can’t hide you that i also thought that your life was perfect, that everything was shining in your life and that mine wasn’t, but now I’ve realised that I was wrong and that you’re a girl like everybody else, like me. I’ve finally found myself in yours : a normal girl. And that makes you prettier than you already were. Thank you so much for being honest and being yourself, you know it’s hard to find a fashion blog like yours, where the blogger isn’t just about “fakeness” and “oh look at me and my perfect life, i’m so gorgeous btw” . You’re perfect at your way and everybody is, and you just showed it to us. Keep working hard Marianna, you were born to do that.
I’m following you since the very first time, I’ve seen your progression and I will always.
Keep it up gorgeous ! xoxo
marianna says
Amazing, thank you so much!! I think I’ll smile the rest of the day after reading this! 🙂
Krystle says
Hi Hun
Love this look but I don’t think those are boyfriend jeans! Those are just distressed skinny fit Jeans. Boyfriend jeans are very baggy and have a very low crotch and are worn cropped at the cuff. Google Boyfriend Jeans if you like. I wear mine paired with a feminine leopard print blouse and hair down- the ideas not to look like a boy!
Anyway Love you, Keep being amazing
xx
jnn says
Niin ihana tuo sun rentoiluasu! Lisää tuollaisia asuja 🙂 Oot niin inspiroiva!
http://newlife-jnn.blogspot.fi/
Nina Sax says
Dear Marianna,
This post is my favourite of your posts. – It shows that you are very… “human”, and casual girl. And it’s actually great that you let this show 🙂
Love,
Nina
Julia says
Thank you so much writing this!
I haven’t commented before but I love your blog because it’s always fun, “pretty” and positive and sets me in a good mood whenever I read it.
But it is important to be reminded that nobody’s perfect and not every blogger walks around 24/7 in high heels (you really do get that impression from a lot of them). And I also feel that this is creating false illusions for the readers. You are one of the more “natural” bloggers anyways and I will enjoy reading your blog even more after this post 🙂
Greetings from Germany 😉
Gabriella says
Big like your post 🙂
esther says
I 100% agree with this post! You’re such an inspiration. Thank you for showing the beautiful things in life. 🙂
Kristina says
You have a nice look)
Converse and Gap <3333333
me in Helsinki – http://alexandrova-kr.blogspot.com
Aldona says
Thank you so very much for sharing with us your thoughts & look. You are very fresh and real. You are really a pretty girl. You can wear a potato sack and still be beautiful. I wish you a great day, greetings from Warsaw:)
Nina says
Then I think your blog isn’t representative of yourreal life at all and therefore it’s a bad blog.
Cause by only posting pictures of yourself when your perfect and wearing heels, you feed the illusion that a normal life should be like that, which is complete nonsens of course.
Anyways thanks for this ‘normal’ and real post!
aleksandra says
how much costs Gap hoodie? 🙂
youknow says
expect the unexpected and all your wishes will come true
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