Peace of mind. Maybe the most important thing in life. Although you can get numb to that whole phrase, seems so cliche. Sometimes I wonder if everybody else has found a peaceful balanced way to live, and I’m the only one rumbling at times? Without a peace of mind, you can feel really lost. You can do wrong decisions, choose to hang out with wrong people, see yourself in a wrong way, speak to yourself with negative words. Live against your values, feel guilty about it and blame yourself, and still the negativity keeps you in that devious cycle. It’s a dangerous trap to lose the sight of what really is important. What you sometimes think that would bring you peace and happiness, can be far away from the truth. Peace of mind can’t be based on some small irrelevant things, it’s something bigger.
When you find yourself blaming and criticizing yourself, just stop. You are still alive, you have done something right. You’ve done the best you possibly could. You have all the power to choose positivity, choose to breathe and let go. You don’t need anyone or anything to make you a whole person, to give a meaning to life. No one is going to save you, it’s your job to give yourself peace and love. And after that you can have everything. Everything can be good, right here, right now, just like it is. I used to think self-acceptance required me to turn into a perfect person. Or if not, I would just have to magically wake up one day and not see my imperfections. But no, it’s neither of those, it’s about being okay with the flaws, with yourself as you are.
Always when I find on the internet those creepy but interesting articles of studies, that show what the most common things are that people regret on their deathbed, I stop and think. These are almost always there: “I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.” And: “I wish that I had let myself be happier”. The meaning of life is to be happy.
So if you are disliking yourself, or living somehow against your values of life, or waiting for that day when you have this and that and changed that etc, you got to stop. You have only one life, you might as well live it in peace with yourself. So what -attitude is needed sometimes, life is not serious, be forgiving to yourself. It’s a big fat lie, that you’d have to look certain way to be happy with yourself, or that you would need some material things or boyfriend or whatever. No, it’s all about the relationship you have with yourself. Self-acceptance is a state of mind, it doesn’t require you to change anything. And let your real personality come out, it’s okay to be interested in whatever it is that you feel passionate about, be brave and strong enough to live your life so that it looks like you. Unique and lovely. Don’t waste your potential to negativity, live this life just the way you want, most of all happily and free. Be brave enough to leave the negativity, the fears, the things restricting your life. Everyone deserves inner peace and freedom.
I probably repeated myself a lot here, but just wanted to write down my thoughts how they came out. This is something I’ve struggled with in my past. And well, still on my bad days, wrote this some time ago after having one. For so long I used to have a wrong state of mind, almost like a constant panic. Getting a wakeup call was the best thing. Questioning your own thoughts and fears. It’s so common, that people are often their own worst enemy. Be your own best friend instead, forgiving and loving.
// Vieläkin vähän kipeänä. On muuten raivostuttavaa tehdä kokoajan virhearviointeja olosta, lähteä liikkeelle ja joutua toteamaan että ei, liian aikaista. Mutta kuulemma nyt on monetkin kipeänä, juuri omituisissa pitkittyneissä kuumeiluissa/kurkkukivussa/flunssassa. No eipä tämä voi lopunikää kestää. Ja tänään äänestämään, siinä päivän varmaankin ainoa aktiviteetti! Yllä on vähän pohdiskelevampaa tekstiä näiden fiiliskuvien seuraksi. Ja hei muuten, näin supermyöhään mainitsen vielä Indiedays Awardsien äänestyksestä, tänään on viimeinen päivä aikaa antaa äänet suosikkiblogeille! Oma blogini löytyy kategoriasta “Lumoavat kuvat”, kunnia olla ehdolla! Suuri kiitos vain jos joku siellä on blogilleni äänensä antanut. 🙂
Pictures: Alexa Aavarinne
Ulla says
Love your sweater ❤️
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irene laura says
Pretty!
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WOWS says
So sweeeet and adorable!
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Monika says
Your thoughts are really beautiful and inspiring! It’s not easy to live a life we actually want and always be true to ourselves. But it’s worht it and we have to try to do it as much as possible 🙂
Have a nice Sunday!
Monika
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Marianna says
Thank you Monika, yes you’re right! Hope you are having a nice Sunday too! x
Hanh says
This was lovely to read first thing on a Sunday morning, living the life you want and being truly happy is what is important. Finding inner peace doesn’t always come easy but when you do find it, everything else doesn’t seem such a big deal. It’s good to take a step back and really appreciate the blessings we have in life 🙂
Marianna says
It is, thank you so much for that Hanh! 🙂 x
JOURNAL OF STYLE says
Absolutely agree with you, Hanh!!
Very inspiring post, Marianna!!
JOURNAL OF STYLE
mediamarmalade says
love this post and the pics too 🙂
Mel x
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Marianna says
Thank you Mel! 🙂 x
Milla says
AIvan ihana postaus! Ja niin totta. Oon itse asiassa miettinyt pitkään samoja asioita. Tajusin, että olen itse kasannut itselleni paineita olla tietynlainen – sellainen ihminen, joka en ole. Tuon tajuaminen oli aika siistiä. Nyt on pitkästä aikaa sellainen kevyt olo. Ja tiedän tuon paniikinomaisen mielentilan 😀 Ei ole kovin mukava. Päätin tossa just, että tänä keväänä mä teen vaan sellaisia kevyiltä ja ei-ahdistavilta tuntuvia asioita, koska vuoden alku oli aika raskas. Haha, en tiedä mikä tän kommentin pointti edes oli, ehkä se, että pystyn samaistumaan 😀 Joka tapauksessa, hyvää kevättä sulle Marianna, ja kiitos ihanasta blogista! ♡
Marianna says
Niinpä, tiedän tasan mitä tarkoitat! Ihana kommentti, kiitos Milla! <3 🙂
Joanna says
You look amazing like always.
Lorena says
Wow, well said. I hope everything is okay.
Marianna says
Thank you Lorena. 🙂
Gabi says
I love these kind of posts. It’s so inspiring, thank you! 🙂 Btw you are really beautiful 🙂
Marianna says
I’m so happy to hear that, I should probably be more brave with writing down my thoughts here 🙂 Thank you so much Gabi!
Luise says
The pictures are beautiful <3
Kind regards
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Marianna says
Thank you Luise <3
sini says
Marianna sä oot IHANA! Taisin tarvita just tätä ♥
Marianna says
Voi ei, hymyilen niin loppuillan, kiitos <3
SweetMona Blog de moda says
Great pics!
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Marianna says
Thank you Mona!
camille says
Great post
Xoxo
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Marianna says
Thank you Camille! 🙂 x
Livia says
Really well written, and the photos you took are beautiful!
Marianna says
Thank you so much 🙂
Maisa says
Mistä tuo ihana pitsiolkaintoppi on? 🙂
Marianna says
Ella M merkkinen bralette Lindexistä 🙂 (Alexan)
Anna says
such a lovely post 🙂
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Marianna says
Thank you Anna 🙂
Eline says
These pictures are gorgeous Marianna. And great story. I love how you’ve opened up to us! X
Marianna says
Thank you so much Eline, I appreciate that 🙂
Anonymous says
Samoja mietteitä pyöritelty täälläkin päässä. Se vain on ajoittain niin paljon helpompi sanoa kuin tehdä. Heikkona hetkenä monesti miettii, että “sitten kun”, joka ei taas palkitse itseään yhtään.. 😉
No mutta kevät on täällä, valoa riittää ja mieli taas pikkuhiljaa virkeimmillään. Kun uskoo, että hymy ja positiivinen mieli muuttaa maailmaa, niin piru vie, se saa luvan tehdä niin. 😀
Marianna says
Jep, tiedän mitä tarkoitat! Mutta onneksi tosiaan kevät ja kesä lähestyy, aika vaan nauttia elämästä ja unohtaa turhat murheet! 🙂
tytteli says
En oo tainnu ikinä aiemmin kommentoida vaikka oon blogiasi lukenu jo monta vuotta, muta nyt kyllä oli pakko! 🙂 Oon nimittäin ihan samoja asioita miettiny itekin viime aikoina. En tiedä onko mullq jonkinlainen ikäkriisi sitten ollu näin 25 ikävuoden lähestyessä parin kuukauden päästä haha 😀 Aattelin aiemmin,että kyllä tässä iässä pitäis jo olla valmistunut tai ainakin melkein, työpaikka, omistuasuntoa varten hyvää vauhtia säästäämässä tai jo hankittuna ja vakituinen parisuhde. Noh itellä ei näistä oo oikeestaan mitään vielä, valmistuminen tässä lähimpää mutta sekin vielä 1,5 vuoden päässä. Mutta tässä viimeisen vuoden aikana oon onneksi vihdoin opetellu olemaan armollisempi itelleni ja hölläämään vähän, kun aiemmin oon ollu taipuvainen suorittamiseen. Ja oon huomannu, että tällä hetkellä oon oikein tyytyväinen näin ja nautin vapaudesta ja siitä että tulevaisuus on monella tapaa ihan auki. Sen asunnon kerkee kyllä hommata myöhemmin ja parisuhde tulee jos on tullakseen. Joten tällä hetkellä keskityn nauttiin kaikesta hyvästä,mitä mulla elämässä jo on ja en vois olla tyytyväisempi, että oon vihdoin oppinu, että ei tää elämä lopulta niin vakavaa ole! 🙂 Ja huh tulipas pitkä kommentti! 😀 Mutta joka tapauksessa ihanaa loppukevättä ja tulevaa kesää Marianna! 🙂
Marianna says
Pystyn samaistumaan moneenkin juttuun, hirvittää ajatella miten joskus nuorempana kuvitteli että 25-vuotiaana pitäisi jo melkein olla perhettä perustamassa ja omistusasunto ja vaikka mitä. Taipumusta mullakin suorittamiseen, mutta pitää vain tehdä parhaansa ettei sille anna valtaa, tyytyväisin mäkin olen aina elämään kun osaa ottaa rennosti päivä kerrallaan, ja uskoa että kaikki asiat menee just niinkuin pitääkin! Mua auttaa jotenkin ajattelu, että kohtalolla on suunnitelmansa, joka on parempi kuin mikään mun oma tekemä suunnitelma, ja turha stressata tulevasta tai murehtia mennyttä. 😀
Hihi kiitos kommentista, tulipa hyvä mieli kun niin samanlaisia ajatuksia! 🙂 Ihanaa kevättä ja kesänodotusta sinnekin!
Bri says
Dear Marianna,
This has got to be my favorite article that you’ve ever written. It is so you and so honest that I was remembered what I liked about you so much – your honesty and not being afraid to accept your flaws despite the inner struggle to always hide them from the world. We’re only human and sometimes it’s ok not to be ok, but we seem to forget that because of the pressure from our society to be perfect and have a perfect life. That’s what a true genuine person to me is – being open and being at peace with who or how they are. That’s what makes us all different and beautiful. I am still amazed how similar we are in a way reading those articles, which are really thought-provoking and like a reminder that our lives are short and we should strive to be the best versions of ourselves, rather than what others expect us to be. Because only when you’re really true to yourself you will feel truly happy. Thank you for sharing these beautiful Sunday thoughts. You’re beautiful inside and out, so stay as you are!
With Love,
Bri
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Marianna says
That’s so amazing, thank you Bri! Exactly my thoughts too, instead of trying to be perfect everyone should just try to be 100% authentic and themselves, that’s the only way to be happy. 🙂 And same words for you too, you seem so sweet, always love your comments! x
Anonymous says
This is so true. The more we are at peace with ourselves, the more we can focus on the beauty around us and really live. Often what holds us back most in life is the picture in our heads of the way it’s supposed to be. Gratitude for what we have, where we are, and who we are is liberating! Thank you for the reminder. These are beautiful photos, too! Props to Alexa!
I hope you have a restful Sunday.
– Elizabeth
Marianna says
Yes exactly! Thank you Elizabeth for that great comment. 🙂
Ruta says
Hi Mariannan,
I think this article was one of the best ones you have written. I read your blog from the beggining and it is the first time I am writing a comment. I just wanted to say that youre doing something very special. Your blog is a part of my day, I like to open it and check it, read it. It just have a soul. And even though I dont know you, I feel and think taht you are a very unique person, with beautiful mind and with passion in your life. I think you heard that lots of times already but you are very inspiring person. Im just very happy that there are such wonderful souls in the world.
Enjoy every moment of your day.
Wishes!
Marianna says
Wow, thank you! That’s such a big compliment I don’t even know what to say, means a lot to have readers like you! x
Cokinelle says
Beautiful words and beautiful photos. So much true.
Marianna says
Thank you so much 🙂
Jelisaveta Djukanovic says
Perfect photos! I’s like to know, do you still use 50mm 1.4 lens? 🙂
Marianna says
Yes still that lens! 🙂 I also have 35mm but I use 50mm way more often, both on outfit pictures and home pictures, and when traveling.
nueyork says
These were such beautiful and true thoughts. I think it is so, so important to remember these things every day.
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Marianna says
Thank you for that lovely comment!
Janette says
Oi miten ihana ja lämmin henkinen postaus! :>
Marianna says
Kiitos Janette, niin kiva kuulla jos tykkäsit 🙂 <3
Pinja says
Et tiedäkään kuinka suuri apu tästä tekstistä oli, kiitos hurjan paljon! <3 Ja todellakin äänestin sua, nämäkin kuvat on niin upeita!
Marianna says
Apua kiitos Pinja, ihana kuulla! <3 🙂
Ola&Emilka says
beautiful photos! <3<3<3
Marianna says
Thank you! <3
Karoliina says
wou! jotenki niiin älyttömän ihania kuvia! *__*
Marianna says
Voi kiitos Karoliina! :>
Eneli says
Word! You are such a inspiring and good looking woman! 🙂
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Marianna says
Thank you sweet Eneli 🙂
Kate says
<3 this is what I needed to hear! 🙂
Marianna says
<3
Catherine says
Great photos and true words…
Marianna says
Thank you Catherine 🙂
Abdullah Teke says
I’d rather have a bad day with someone like you then a great day with someone who doesn’t appreciate life and themselves, you’re a special person ,you make people smile and feel good about themselves, I know because I read alot of their comments ,I’m kinda like that Micheal Jackson meme where he is like “im just here to read the comments” lol :p,their is a special place in heaven for angelic souls like yourself, stay proud and strong and stubborn ,don’t let any hater bring you down you are much bigger then you’ll ever think you are ,god bless you :*
Marianna says
Hahah aww, made me laugh! Thank you for the support!
Abdullah teke says
Thank you for that face <3 :*kiitos as you guys say lol
Nancy says
This is beautiful Marianna. I really enjoyed reading your thoughts. I need to read this every time I feel stuck and lost, which is more than I would like. Its so hard to just let go of all the negative thoughts and be free. Especially getting rid of the fear of what others think. I tell my self that I don’t care what others think but I still hold myself back a lot.
Marianna says
Thank you so much Nancy! 🙂 I know what you mean, sometimes we just get caught up on our thoughts and negative beliefs, but learning to notice them and trying to let go of them is an important thing to learn!
Natali says
Absolutely agree on every single word that you wrote down here! Thanks for opening up and being so honest. This makes us all much closer and more “human” than just the regular : ” Here I’m wearing this and that.” You’ve totally hit the spot saying that you don’t need anybody else to save you and give a meaning to your life. Us, ourselves have to learn how to love and be comfortable in our own skin. If we love ourselves and are fine with whoever we are, we won’t be looking for an approval and acceptance in other people.
Have a great Sunday Marianna! 🙂
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Marianna says
Thank you Natali, you’re completely right! 🙂 Hope you are having a good Sunday!
Mariam says
Ihana teksti! Tästä tuli hyvä olo.
Tykkään sun blogista just tietynlaisen tunnelman takia, en osaa sitä tarkemmin selittää. Tuntuu vaan että just nää asiat mitä kirjoitit, heijastuu sun blogiin, vaikka en tosiaan osaa selittää oikein tarkemmin että miten, se on vaan se tietty fiilis mikä tulee kun klikkaa itsensä tänne.
Vaikutat tosi mahtavalta ihmiseltä, ihanaa kevättä sulle 🙂 Ja kiitos blogista joka piristää päiviä josta tulee aina hyvälle mielelle! <3
Marianna says
Ihanasti sanottu, ihan mielettömän siistiä jos tuo välittyy muutenkin jutuissani. Voi vitsi, kiitos Maria! <3
Johanna says
Olipas jotenkin pysäyttävä ja miettimään pistävä postaus.. Todella kauniita sanoja ja ajatuksia! Kosketti itseänikin jollain oudolla tavalla miten ei ole aiemmin tuntunut. Jään miettimään tätä kirjoitustasi ja olen enemmän kun iloinen että jaoit nämä ajatukset kanssamme! Toivottavasti paranet pian ja hyvää kevättä sinulle:) ♡
Marianna says
Voi, kiitos. <3 Samaa sinulle Johanna! 🙂
Tiffy S says
Exactly what I needed right this day – thank you <3
Marianna says
Love to hear that. <3
annie lee says
common things that people regret on their deathbed – those are what i live by. so that i don’t carry those regrets when it’s too late to do anything about it!
Mirsini says
Marianna,
Your words are beautiful. I totally agree with you. Last time i was with a good friend, she asked how i was, i answered that everything was peaceful and good and she was looking at me really surprised. The most important is to love yourself and your decisions and the people you have by your side. And not to accept the negativity of others. Push them far far away!
Kisses, Mirsini
Marta says
Thank you for sharing these deep, personal thoughts! You’re beautiful inside and outside Marianna! :)It’s hard to believe you had self- acceptance issues as your blog has always been so positive! Stay as beautiful as you are! Never change, okay? Okay! 🙂
You wrote about having no regrets. And I have to agree. I always thought that regret is such a pointless feeling. But I met someone, who use to block his feelings, his desires and dreams. It’s someone who liked me a lot. But he is a kind of a lonely wolf. He told me he would want something more, but right after that he changed his mind and denied he wanted… love and acceptance. I think it’s because of his inner demons, his fears. Now we’re not staying in touch anymore and I just wonder if he regret that he lost a chance to feel something special, something what he really wanted deep down. It’s hard to say ‘don’t regret’ when you actually have reasons to regret… I wonder what you think about that 🙂
Sanna says
Onnistunut teksti! Toimi myös englanniksi paljon paremmin kuin jos olisi käännettynä suomeksi 🙂
Kasia says
Where did you buy this sweater? And this bra?
Kisses:)
Olya says
Dear Marianna, thank you for this beautiful and inspiring post! You are a beautiful person (inside and out) and so often reading your sharing I find something special for me that it feels like a blessing to have come across your blog.
You are brining the light to the world and I hope your life will always shine with all the best you absolutely deserve xoxo
Marianna says
Oh wow, that makes me speechless. So grateful to have readers like you! All the best for you too Olya <3
Bea says
Thank you so so much for this, I think I really needed this right now, feeling a little overwhelmed by life at the moment
Marianna says
Thank you for that. <3 Remember that in the end everything will be okay. 🙂
Milla says
Reading your thoughts is my favorite part of your blog. This was exactly what I needed. Lately ive been stressing about my future career and finding who i am. It will be a lot easier if i only listen to myself instead of others 🙂
Marianna says
Aw thank you! I needed your comment too, haha I need a little bit of courage to write my thoughts here more often. And yes that is exactly what you need to do, just listen to yourself! 🙂
Ceren says
So well written and inspiring. I totally agree with what you said above. It really is hard to find peace with oneself, to forgive yourself and let go, to love yourself. But it’s worth it.
Thanks for these nice words, Marianna!
xo Ceren
Marianna says
Thank you Ceren! x
Monica says
What a beautifully authentic post, Marianna. I can tell this means a lot to you, and I really appreciate that you took the time to share such personal, heartfelt thoughts. I’ve thought many similar things before. It’s hard to actually put things into practice, though, and it’s nice to hear someone else remind you that you and your life is beautiful no matter what. You’re so right about those articles about people on their death beds–most of what we worry about so much daily will be the farthest thing from our minds at the end of our lives. Why waste so much energy being negative when we only have one life? Nothing will ever be perfect, and life doesn’t wait for perfect. We should spend our energy embracing life. I love these types of posts from you. In all your posts actually you always seem so real, which is one of the biggest things I love about your blog, so thank you! I hope everything is okay with you, and I hope you have a wonderful week!
Marianna says
Thank you so much Monica! Your words mean a lot, that’s such a big compliment! And yes we should just spend our days enjoying life, in the end the little things we often worry about and make big ones inside of our head, are just waste of time and happiness. Wishing you a lovely week too! x
Misha says
Thank you for this post. I feel like falling apart lately, my life is a mess and I’m so scared of the future, but when I read this post of yours, it just really touched me and brought me a little peace. I usually don’t write comments, even though I visit, but I just wanted to thank you.
P.S.: I really don’t understand how you could not feel happy about yourself, you are perfection, seriously, I mean it. Beautiful inside out, and that is rare.
Marianna says
Thank you for deciding to write a comment, really appreciate it. That made me so happy! 🙂 But oh that’s so nonsense, I’m far away from perfect. Wishing you all the best, everything will be okay! x
Olivia says
Hi Marianna, you look beautiful! I have followed for a while and never commented, but your words our very true and close to how I feel about life.
I once had lunch with friends, in a serious moment, one asked, “What is the meaning of life?” My response was happiness, not your happiness at other’s expense, but to be happy with what you have. In turn, she said that was too selfish a mindset.
It hurt because it has taken a long time for me to accept myself and accept that I am worthy of happiness. And right now, despite life not being perfect, I am so happy and blessed to be where I am and have what I have. I feel now if I died, the only thing I would regret was not living long enough to start my family.
I truly believe in happiness, and like you say, self-acceptance is the guide to it. It is not original, but I like this quote very much. “Do what you feel in your heart to be right, for you’ll be criticized anyway.”
At the end of the day, we only have our one life, we have to live it according to what fulfills us and not others. Thank you so much for your post, I will surely read it again when I need to be reminded.
Marianna says
What a great quote! And you are so right, keep that mindset and don’t let others opinions bring you down. It is healthy to be a little bit selfish (though I don’t find anything selfish in that to be honest!), in the end the meaning of life is to be happy and enjoy our time. Thanks so much Olivia for the comment! x
Nikki says
WOW this post truly hit home, thank you so much for posting it!! Definitely needed to read something like this- you write beautifully! Xx
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Jatta says
Tätä mä just tarvitsin – kannustavaa ja rohkaisevaa tekstiä siitä, että pitää uskaltaa olla välillä yksinkin oman itsensä kanssa. Kiitos, oot ihana ja kaikkea hyvää sulle! 🙂
Marianna says
Kiitos Jatta, ihanasti sanottu! <3
Sophie says
I got tears in my eyes reading your post! I’m very negative with myself because I need to be perfect for the others and to avoid critics. but it’s very very stressful. I have health problem since some months and it affects my appearance (i have less hair and i have red patches on my face). it’s not very visible fortunately But that affects me a lot. I lost confidence in me. Thank you for your post it’s very nice. it’s difficult to to accept accept yourself.
Thank you!
Marianna says
You’ve no idea how happy it makes me if this helped in any way! I know how stressful those kind of thought patterns can be, they take so much energy and you can start seeing everything in life in a negative way. I hope you’ll step by step open your eyes to all the good things, I’m sure those things hasn’t taken any of your beauty away. x
Sophie says
Marianna, your are an angel, you know this?
It’s true i don’t know you but sincerly, I think you are a great friend because i think you are someone sweet. Sorry i speak very bad english, i’m belgian but i want to say yu THANKS THANKS THANKS. You are a beautiful person inside and outside. i’ll be never so pretty of you but you are my model however i have 28 years old ;-), the world needs person like you. <3
Sara says
Hallo Marianna, you look just beautiful and you took pictures in nice place 🙂 sarabloguje.blogspot.com xxxx
Sofia Vasconcelos says
I needed these words.. Great post! Beautiful photos 🙂
H says
Olipas ihana postaus jälleen kerran! Täyttä asiaa kyllä koko teksti, asioita joita itsekin olen pyöritellyt mielessäni. Täytyykin aloittaa uusi viikko olemalla armeliaampi itselleen eikä aina vaatia täydellisyyttä! 🙂
Marianna says
Kiitos paljon! 🙂 Ja niinpä, tuon kun aina muistaisi ja sisäistäisi, olisi vähän helpompaa ja rennompaa elämä!
Sarah says
I’ve been following your blog for years and I agree so much with you ! Finally the most important really is to be happy with ourselves first. I really love when you share some things like these. I feel like I’m not the only one to have this kind of thinking !
Hope you’re sleeping well now !
Have a good week !
xoxo
Sarah
Marianna says
Thank you so much Sarah! 🙂 I’m happy to hear you’ve been reading for a long time, so nice! Wishing you a good week too! :-* x
Anne says
Todella kauniita kuvia! 🙂 Sun hiukset on kyllä niin hyvinvoivan ja kiiltävän näköiset, että olisi kiva kuulla, mitä tuotteita suosit 🙂
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Marianna says
Ai no kiitos Anne! 🙂 Voisin tehdä uutta hiuspostaustakin, mun top kolme tuotteet ovat Moroccan oil-öljy, Aussien Hi-hold hiuslakka, ja nyt uutena suosikkina Tigin re-energize sarjan shampoo ja hoitis!
Anna says
Ihana postaus! <3
Hei tekisitkö joskus postaus sun treenivaatteista? 🙂 Olisi kiva nähdä!:)
Marianna says
Kiitos Anna! <3 Teen tuon pian! 🙂
Kate says
Thank you so much for sharing this, I’m currently in a strange state of mind where I’m constantly battling against people who are trying to force me into something I’m not and having to constantly be sticking up for myself for being me and not doing what they want me to do instead of allowing myself to live the life the way I want to. It’s a very frustrating feeling when people feel the need to point out everything you are doing wrong and criticise you for being yourself when you don’t do the same to them, imagine if I did! They would be shocked to hear a few home truths. I try to tell myself that it is more to do with a battle they are going through but trying to deflect it onto you, which is what sometimes I think is the reason for a lot of this issue.
So nice to read a post so reassuring like this one 🙂 Whenever I’m having a bad day I’m going to reread this post!
VioletDaffodils
xx
Marianna says
I’m so glad if it helped in any way, thank you so much Kate! Stay strong, you know yourself best, and it is your life and you’ll live it your way! 🙂 x
Nastya says
where you bought this sweater and top? Very cute and soft)
Marianna says
Both are actually Alexa’s, but the sweater Tiger of Sweden and top Lindex 🙂 Love them too!
Emma says
Todella kauniita kuvia ja teksti. Mullekkin menneisyydestä tuttu teema, tosi kivasti kirjoitit asiasta. Kaikkien pitäisi lukea toi teksti 🙂
http://www.forthosewhoneedsparkle.blogspot.com
Julia says
I fell in love with this post, just because it is so true. I am happy that this is shared on your blog so that many people can read it, realize it and after all internalize.
xoxo
Patrizia says
I love your sweater! You look so pretty! 🙂
http://www.thesmallnoble.blogspot.de
Anna says
Olipas ihana ja inspiroiva teksti sulta. Herätti tosi paljon ajatuksia ja mietteitä, kiitos ♥️
Melisa says
You look beautiful! And the sweater looks good on you! X
http://melisa-demir.blogspot.nl
Estelle says
Marianna….
You have no idea how you can inspire me, that’s amazing !
I love the way you give cosy and sweet feelings when we are looking at your pictures !
Addicted to knitwear and lace bralette <3
With love,
Estelle
http://www.secretesty.wordpress.com
Vivi says
Thank you SO SO SO much. Really. When I write here, normaly is to ask for more personal posts. I follow your blog for many and many years, and I’m growing up with you, you know? So it’s really a big thing for me to see that you have some thing that you struggle about and that you’re growing up and learning too. I reallt need to remind myself some of your words…
For now: thank you. <3
Manu says
I know you wrote this post quite a while ago, but I’ve just stumbled upon it right now and I love it – such inspiring words!! I’m still trying to be happy with myself and I guess we all have struggles with that sometimes!
elisa says
odotan edelleen sitä videoo (laitoin saman viestin vuosi sitten)…:D haha eivaan, mut ois tosiaan kiva jos joskus voisit tehdä semmoisen :)!
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