Another week has gone by, crazy how the time just disappears somewhere! There’s only two days until my birthday, and turning 25. Feels like such an grown-up age. I gotta admit my life is completely different I would have imagined as a young girl. I would have probably thought that I’d have it all figured out by now, living a really traditional balanced life and found a man of my dreams. Who’s name would be Todd, just like in Sweet Valley High books the perfect boyfriend. (Though I always related more to the wrong decisions making Jessica, than perfect Elizabeth.) Back to the subject! Now that I think, many of my friends are living that kind of life now: getting engaged, buying homes, talking about rings and babies. I don’t actually have any friend being single. Still weirdly I’m not having an age crisis, I’m only happy for my friends life happenings and they are happy for mine too. As it should be in real friendships.
I don’t really even know how to compare myself to others in those kind of things, I learned it quite early that everyone has their own way to go, own instincts on making decisions, which leads our lives. I’ve went my own path, with lots of mistakes, wrong decisions and weird crazy things. But they are my mistakes that have got me where I needed to go. And I’ve really done something right, when I look around I see that I have it all to be happy and enjoy life. I have friends and family, a nice cozy home, a cute fluffy thing sleeping on my feet, sun is shining and I still love living in Helsinki. And I love blogging, I’m proud to have many wonderful readers, who I feel like are a part of my life too. And made it possible for me to love my job, and turn my hobby into a job in the first place. Hobby that I started 9 years ago, not even a thought crossed my mind that this would happen.
Where I’m going to be at thirty, I’ve no idea. But I’m ready for the years to come, there’s not really any other purpose in life than just to be happy. So as a note to my future self: focus on the things you love (and make time for them), while giving new things a try. Don’t be so critical and hard on yourself, remember what life is about. So don’t stress about the stupid stuff. Think more often, how you’ll look back on your life when you are a grandma, how you wanted it to be? Filled with positivity and love and nice memories, that’s for sure. Also stop choosing the wrong guys. Even though as a grandma you have lots of stories and lessons to tell your grandkids. Also don’t dwell on the past and regret, there has always been a meaning and a lesson learned. Don’t hold yourself back or ask for others approval, live your life the way you like it.
Taas on viikko tullut päätökseensä, eli taas aika ihmetellä minne aika oikein katoaa. Enää kaksi päivää synttäreihini. Oon pian 25, kuulostaa jo aikuiselta iältä. Viiden vuoden päässä kolmestakympistä. Aina synttäreiden aikaan alkaa herkästi pohtimaan omaa elämäntilannetta. Täytyy myöntää, että se on nyt aivan erilainen, mitä olisin joskus nuorena tyttönä kuvitellut sen tämän ikäisenä olevan. Kuvittelin, että mulla olisi täydellinen tasapainoinen elämä ja unelmamies. Jonka nimi olisi mieluiten Todd, niinkuin Sweet Valley Highssa se täydellinen poikaystävä. Silti ehkä enemmän samaistuin vääriä valintoja tekevään Jessicaan kuin täydelliseen Elizabethiin… Takaisin aiheeseen! Elämäntilannetta miettiessä, oon edelleenkin ystäväpiirissäni ainoa sinkku, ympärillä mennään jo kihloihin ja naimisiin, puhutaan sormuksista ja vauvoista ja omistusasunnoista. Kumma kyllä, ei mulla ole silti sen kummempaa ikäkriisiä ikinä ollut, eikä se iskenyt nytkään. Ellen sitten ylihuomenna yllättäen herää hirveässä 25-vuotispaniikissa. Haha no en usko. Mä olen iloinen kaikista mun ystävien ihanista jutuista, ja niin on hekin mun. Just niinkuin se kuuluukin olla.
Oon jo aika aikasin ymmärtänyt, että jokainen meistä kulkee omaa polkuaan, tekee omia valintoja vaistojaan kuunnellen. Mä olen iloinen siitä mihin olen päätynyt. Kun katson ympärilleni, on mulla kaikki syyt olla onnellinen. Perhe, ystäviä, koti jossa viihdyn, ihana tuhiseva karvapallero nytkin nukkumassa jalkojen päällä, aurinko paistaa ulkona ja Helsinki tuntuu kodilta. Nautin työstäni, mulla on ihania fiksuja lukijoita, ja niin monta syytä olla kiitollinen. Saan tehdä työkseni harrastusta, jonka yhdeksän vuotta sitten aloitin ilman minkäänlaista aavistusta, että tämä kaikki olisi mahdollista.
Siitä, missä mä olen sitten 30-vuotiaana, ei ole mitään hajua. Enkä mä edes halua suunnitella, elämä kuitenkin laittaisi suunnitelmani uusiksi, niinkuin se on aina tehnyt. Haluan elää päivä kerrallaan, muistaen ettei elämässä ole juuri muuta tarkoitusta kuin olla onnellinen.
I wore my new bag for the first time on Friday! How do you like this outfit?
Uusi laukku pääsi käyttöön perjantaina. Mitäs pidätte asusta?
Coat & collar Zara
Wool skirt Zara
Boots Stuart Weitzman
Bag Chloé
georgina says
Thank u…..
Marianna says
🙂
Mia says
Marianna thank u so much for blogging and writing this post. Ive been reading ur blog for over 3 years now and could have been able to See that your posts become better and better! I just love ur inspirating pictures and the way u write! This post touched my heart and i think u wrote down all of These things, of which we all are thinking in this age. You go girl!
Btw, i also have Birthday on 13th this month :))
Mia says
I forgot..you look gorgeous!
Marianna says
Wow, really! Thank you so much Mia, that gave me such an inspirational motivation boost 🙂 Really meant a lot. <3 What a coincidence we have the same birthday, haha yay! x
Rosie von Waldherr says
Love the outfit Marianna! The little bit of skin between the skirt and the boots looks unexpected and a bit sexy 😉 Love Minnie btw, she’s soooo cute!!
xoRosie
Rosie’s Life
Marianna says
Thank you Rosie! 🙂 x
Fanny says
You’re happy right now so it’s the more important thing 🙂
Marianna says
Oh thank you Fanny for that! 🙂 It really should be always the most important thing for everyone. x
Janica says
Ah, toi laukku!!! <3
Itse olen 32v. ja usko pois, että tämän ikäisenä saa kuulla paljon sitä, että pitäisi olla jo mies hankittuna (mitä siis ei ole) ja lapsiakin pitäisi olla jo vähintään tuloillaan... Ja ainahan sitä saa kuulla muilta kaikkea, millainen sitä pitäisi olla ja mitä pitäisi tehdä. Välillä myös oma mieli harhautuu vertailemaan itseään muihin. Olen joutunut opettelemaan sen, että elän rohkeasti oman näköistä elämää (ja työ sillä saralla jatkuu edelleen). Välillä tuntuu hassulta, miten ihmiset jaksavatkaan arvostella muiden tekemisiä!
Tiedän kuitenkin, että vain minä tiedän oman elämäni punaisen langan. Vielä jonain päivänä minäkin haluan miehen ja perheen, mutta toistaiseksi olen nauttinut omien juttujen toteuttamisesta, joten noiden aika on sitten vähän myöhemmin.
Ehkä mun pointti oli se, että jos tuntuu, että 25 v. on vanha, niin älä huoli, on olemassa paljon vanhempiakin ihmisiä (kuten minä), joilla se "normisetti" on vielä edessäpäin. 😀
Ihanaa syksyä sinne! 🙂
Marianna says
Ah tiedän mität tarkoitat, toi on kyllä välillä turhauttavaa kuulla ikään liittyviä odotuksia ja kyselyitä. Mutta tärkeintä juuri muistaa itse, että elämän kuuluu näyttää juuri itseltä ja mennä niinkuin itsestä tuntuu hyvältä, mikä on tarkoitettu tapahtuu kyllä aikanaan.
Kiitos loistavasta kommentista, ja ihanaa syksyä sinnekin Janica! 🙂
Charlotte says
Absolutely cute! I love that bag!!
http://fashionfixeshearts.blogspot.com
Marianna says
Thank you Charlotte! 🙂 x
Jenni says
Ah toi laukku on kyllä niin unelma <3 Itse täytin kans pari viikkoa sitten 25, ja kyllä se pisti vähän miettimään omaa elämäntilannetta ja sitä missä menee verrattuna kavereihin ja ennen kaikkea siihen että missä kuvitteli että pitäisi olla.
Ja vielä se ikäkriisi ehtii sieltä tulla (mäkin olin synttäripäivänä ihan coolina että ei mitään ikäkriisiä, ja nyt on jo hirvee kriisi menossa että jotain muutoksia pitää nyt elämään saada kun oon jo niin vanha ja aikuinen :D).
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Marianna says
Oon kyllä ollut niin tyytyväinen laukkuun! <3 Haha voi vitsi, noin sen ikäkriisin kanssa saattaa mullakin käydä. Onneks on nyt koiravauva, niin tuntuu jo kuin eläisi vähän äidin arkea. 😀 Myöhäiset onnittelut muuten! 🙂
Olya says
Thank you so much for this post, Marianna!
I remembered your birthday was on 13th, and I am waiting for it too:D
These posts of you always seem to come in the very right moment I read them… I am also a bit looking back and making resolutions for the future now that I’ve passed some “round date” (by the way, we are both born in October :)).
Life is hard at times, but if there is something that is crucial and making a change – it is beleiving in ourselves, trusting our path and having a hope for the good…
Marianna says
Thank you Olya! Oh that made me so happy! 🙂 And you are so right on that, we should always remember what is the most important thing, the hard times will always pass. October is a great month to be born, something to celebrate before the Christmas season! x
Tamara says
Yes a new outfit-post! Love your look 🙂
Marianna says
Thank you so much Tamara! 🙂 x
Asmina says
Style plus substance!!.. Loved reading your blog today. I think you have reached a new milestone today!! …….I really got a sense that there is an awesome person behind the awesome posts!!:)
Marianna says
Aw, how sweet is that, I’m speechless now 🙂 Thank you! x
Anna says
Heippa Marianna, kaunis asu ja kiva kirjoitus! Välillä on hyvä pysähtyä miettimään, mihin oma elämä on menossa (niin hyvässä kuin pahassakin), ja synttäreiden kynnyksellä on juuri luonnollinen hetki tähän.
Itselläni on samanlainen Chloén laukku, ja rakastan kyllä tuota haalean vaaleanpunaista sävyä. Vaaleannpunainen Drew tuo moniin syksyisen tummiin asuihin sopivasti tyttömäisyyttä ja raikkautta.
Kiitos ihanasta blogista! xx
http://www.arcticvanilla.com/
Marianna says
Kiitos Anna ihanasta kommentista! 🙂 Voi täytyy tulla selailemaan sun asukuvista eri yhdistelmiä, tuo on kyllä aivan ihana laukku! Ja niinpä tuo kivaa raikkautta juuri tuo sävy. x
Natali says
Your Drew bag is so pretty and I think that it “fits” this outfit and overall mood so well!
I have bday this month too, in exactly 8 days and turning 28. Lots of thoughts are running through my mind on aging, life goals, dreams and such… I can’t wait to write them all down in a post like this one. You’re such a smart and inspiring young woman Marianna.
http://lartoffashion.com
Marianna says
Thank you so much Natali, that was so kind of you to say! 🙂 I have to come read your post soon then! x
Marta Ivars says
An adorable outfit, so in love with every single clothe of it!! you look really gorgeous!
xx
NEW POST UP ON MY BLOG: http://www.rosesandtulipes.com/
Marianna says
Thank you so much Marta! x
Elly says
You and the way you lead your live are an inspiration! If you support a good cause, donate a little money to charity or plan on doing it in the future – I would also love to read about it. You would set a pretty good example to your many readers.
As you always do!
Marianna says
Aw, thank you Elly! 🙂 You’re right, I completely agree that those kind of things are important. From time to time I do donate some small amounts, so I will leave thinking about this. x
Gina says
Beautiful outfit<3
Marianna says
Thank you Gina! <3
camille says
Lovely coat
Xoxo
http://fashionbackyard.blogspot.fr
Marianna says
Thank you! x
Raisa says
http://www.kouvolansanomat.fi/m/Mielipide—Kolumnit/2015/08/17/Elä%20omaa%20elämää/2015219413320/457 tuolla vähän samanlaisia ajatuksia kuin sinulla 🙂
Marianna says
Totta, hyviä ajatuksia 🙂
Sonia-Karen Stor says
You look gorgeous Marianna!♥
CAPTURING MY LIFE blog
Marianna says
Thank you Sonia-Karen! ♥
Aneta says
You are so inspirational! I love reading your posts and how you share your thoughts with us:) you are such an amazing and smart woman! And don’t worry I’m the single one from my group of girlfriends too, but as you said I also focus on the things that make me happy instead of complaining about my Prince Charming:) love with eventually come to us at some point of our lives.
Marianna says
Thank you so much lovely Aneta, I can’t even find words how happy that made me!:) x
Bri says
You’re such a sweet soul Marianna. I still remember how somehow I came across your blog via Lauren Conrad’s blog where she shared your photo of your hair style. I’ve been reading it ever since and now has it been 5, 6 years?… Not sure. But it does feel like I (together with other readers) have become part of your life. I love how you stayed true to yourself but never made us bored! Your genuine writing and kind personality is what made us all stick around and support you and you and a few other bloggers inspired me to write my own story on my blog. As for your outfit, I absolutely love the Cartier bangle matching the gold details on your Celine bag. I love how luxurious you are, yet the whole outfit comes across as very simple and put together. Have a nice Sunday! <3
With Love,
Bri
http://www.awostories.com
Marianna says
Thank you so much Bri, oh my god that is just too sweet <3 Gotta say the same thing back to you, I always love reading your comments! I have so amazing smart beautiful readers I just can't help but smiling, and how cool that so many of you have been with me for years! Hope you had a nice relaxing Sunday! x
annie lee says
Hope you have a lovely birthday marianna 🙂 i’m the same age as you as well and totally agree with you on how everyone’s getting engaged or having babies! Lets not give into the cliche of quarter life crisis 😉
Marianna says
Aw thank you Annie Lee! 🙂 Hahah yeah that is a cliche, let’s just skip the crisis!
Lisa says
Great and very inspiring words, Marianna. ♡
You’re absolutely right and I completely agree that you have to focus on the positive and often very small but beautiful moments in life. Love, friendship and happiness – that’s what life is all about. 🙂
Your blog is such a big inspiration for me, concerning your outfits, your way of life and your personality. You mentioned that your readers are a part of your life, which makes me really happy in a certain way, because your blog became a part of my life too and a lovely daily routine.
Keep on doing what you do, it’s perfect. ♡
Lots of love from Germany,
Lisa – http://www.confettiblush.com
Marianna says
Thank you so much Lisa! 🙂 That means so much to me, so I can’t really even thank you enough! <3
Rae says
I really enjoyed reading this post! You have such a great outlook on life 🙂
-Rae
studentsandstyle.wordpress.com
Marianna says
Thank you Rae! 🙂 x
Stacey says
Hi Marianna, I have been following your blog for years now but have never left a comment! after all these years, I have to say I almost feel like you are the Finnish version of me, although I am a year older. Haha a little creepy sounding but i always relate so much to what you write!! I am just about to move out on my own, sadly I can’t get a puppy because my parents would never watch it for me during holidays as my mum doesn’t like dogs, but Minnie is so cute 🙂 anyway love the bag! Keep on blogging.
Stacey, Scotland.
Marianna says
Oh really!! That is so funny, would be fun to meet. 😀 But anyway thank you so much Stacey, I hope there comes a better time for you with getting a dog! 🙂 x
Steffy says
I love this outfit especially those overknees. Please make more picture with your puppy! Minnie is too cute :)) You are such an amazing person and I love your blog! Please don’t ever stop blogging!
Wish you a wonderful evening
Lots of love from Germany
steffy
-http://rosediamond02.blogspot.de/
Marianna says
I love to hear you want puppy pics, haha more will come! 🙂 Thank you so much Steffy, I really appreciate that! x
Lydia says
So nice to see the new bag out and about 🙂 And agree with your words, just live your life by your own rules 🙂 The most important thing is that you’re happy and fulfilled. No point comparing oneself to others, when all of us are different!
http://www.lydiatrj.com
Marianna says
Thank you Lydia! 🙂 I agree 100%! x
Lisa says
I totaly understand how you feel. I’m 25, living alone, but no boyfriend. When I was younger, i pictured my live different. Thought I would have someone with who I could start building a future with. But still I’m happy. Luckily some of my friends are still single, so we can go out once and a while.
Can you show us a beter picture of your skirt? Or could you perhaps post the link from the website?
Marianna says
Thank you Lisa, being happy is the number one thing. And what is meant to happen later will happen, no need to rush but just enjoy the moment. 🙂 I just thought to myself I need to shoot better pictures with the skirt, it barely shows here! Anyway it’s this one:
http://www.zara.com/fi/en/woman/skirts/view-all/skater-skirt-c733908p2874288.html
Lauren says
The bag! I love it. Don’t sweat it about your life plans, everyone is different, that’s what makes us unique x
http://www.wonkylauren.com
Marianna says
Thank you Lauren for the lovely comment! 🙂 x
Laís says
Lovely outfit, the bag is really special.
Touching words, I think life is pretty much this. Learning, loving, sharing.
Marianna says
Thank you Laís, those are some true words!:) x
Céline says
Wow your scarf is so cute! Lovely look : )
xx,
Céline blogging on Smultronställen
Marianna says
Thank you Céline! 🙂 x
Aimee says
Oh my goodness! That Sweet Valley High reference made me so happy! Haha
Marianna says
Haha so happy to hear someone remembers still Sweet Valley High! Oh those times! x
Johanna says
Onko noissa saappaissa korkoa, vai ovatko ihan matalapohjaiset?
Marianna says
Ihan matalapohjaiset on. 🙂 Korkoversiotkin on hienot, mutta itselläni jäisivät vähän liian vähälle käytölle!
Tanya says
Lovely post!!!!
♥
What makes you beautiful
Marianna says
Thank you Tanya!♥
Nancy says
I loved reading this! You’re honestly so inspiring. I find that a lot of the times I can relate with how you’re feeling and your outlook on life. I’ve been feeling overwhelmed with my own thoughts about my future and what I want to do with my life, but I guess it doesn’t have to be that way. I just have to make time for what I love and I’m sure things will fall into place! Thank you! 🙂
Marianna says
Thank you so much Nancy, I’m seriously smiling so wide now. And that’s a thought you have to listen to, just focus on the things you love, trust that everything will go right as it’s meant to! 🙂
Liz says
I love this look! Especially your bag, it’s gorgeous!
xo, Liz
http://lipstickandconfetti.com
Marianna says
Thank you Liz! x
tanja says
It is the first time that I comment on your website. I am a huge fan of your blog and I want to thank u for this post. The last days I felt bad about being 23 and not having a boyfriend, being single and the most time alone. After reading your post I felt better and more optimistic. You are very inspiring and I had a good day with your thoughts . Everything happens for a reason and I think my life is pretty good … I like the city I am studying, I have friends, a lovely family and there are good times and also bad times in life when you doubt everything and struggle….but it is important to think positive and look forward…so thank u <3 I love your blog and your style... btw I have the same collar..your coat and the bag are absolutely amazing... Lots of kisses from Germany
Marianna says
Thank you so much Tanja! That’s amazing, and I agree, it’s good to just focus on how everything is good right here right now, and what is meant to happen will happen, we don’t have to stress about it. Just living in the moment is the best thing. <3
Pinja says
Huh, tää postaus sai mut kyllä ajattelemaan ihan uudella tavalla omaa ikääni! Noin puolen vuoden päästä täytän 20 ja aloin potemaan pientä ikäkriisiä jo silloin 19 vuotta täytettyäni. Tää postaus jotenkin avasi mun silmät sille, että hei, on ihan ok että ikää tulee lisää, eikä sitä voi oikeastaan mitenkään estääkään! Nyt uudella asenteella ja innolla siis sitä pyöreää pariakymmentä! Niin ja asuhan on totta kai upea, kuten aina! <3 🙂
Marianna says
No todellakin, elämällä on meille omat suunnitelmansa joten paras vain nauttia siitä elämästä päivä kerrallaan turhaa stressaamatta. Kiitos Pinja! <3
Brigitte Hayley says
I really enjoyed this post, really inspirational and uplifting 🙂 Totally agree with everything you said! x
Brigitte | brigittehayley.com
vera says
Beautiful bag. You look AMAZING!
Blonde in Cashmere
SweetMona Blog de moda says
love your look!
http://www.sweetmona.com
Carli says
I’m going through the same things as you, all my friends have relationships or a certain kind of balance and I’m trying to find out what I want to do with my life haha but i’m ok with that! I’m living my life just the way I want and I think thats the best way to do it. We don’t have to freak out… everything is gonna be alright haha
xx Carli
Marianna says
Yes exactly! 🙂 Thank you Carli, so good to read these kind of comments! x
With Or Without Shoes says
Looovely bag!
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❤ Kisses from http://www.withorwithoutshoes.com ❤
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Cazzie says
There are a few fashion/lifestyle blogs that I like to read regularly, and I usually don’t write comments on them but this blog post inspired me to write something. Although I am one year younger than you, I have been spending a lot of time thinking about the same things–what stage I’m at in my life right now, where will I be a year from now, five years from now, etc…especially because I’m currently in my last year of school, and next year I don’t know if I will find a job to support myself. But the nice thing is, almost every girl our age is going through the same exact feeling and thought process. We are all in the same stage of life, and even though it may seem like some people have it all figured out and we don’t, it will work out for everyone eventually.
Just take time to appreciate the little things–your own apartment, your beautiful city, and your lovely little puppy =)
Marianna says
Oh thank you so much 🙂 You are so right on that!! Absolutely loved your comment! x
Nikki says
You look beautiful!! I love the touch of pink from your bag, it’s perfect!! X
http://www.fashionablepassion.com
Stefanie says
Super lovely outfit! The bag is just so you :)) <3 Delicate, elegant, with a touch of girly.
x Stefanie
http://www.thefashionrose.com
vaida_spr says
This post is so inspirational 🙂 Thank you!!! 😉
Daniella says
Sweet Valley High! 😀 ne kirjat ja se sarja…ihan parasta! Luettiin kirjoja siskojen kanssa, maattiin sängyssä ja jokasella eri kirja, ja sitten vaihdettiin 🙂
Paljon onnea tulevan syntymäpäivän johdosta! Asiat on todella hyvin, jos pystyy olemaan onnellinen omasta elämästä ja olemaan vertailematta sitä liiaksi muiden elämään.
Marianna says
Hahah niin hauska että joku muistaa vielä kirjat! 😀 Kiitos Daniella! 🙂
SUSAN FIORELLA says
Hello Gorgeous Mariana 🙂
You’re looking lovely.
I Love the post today. SO VERY REAL !
and of course loving the bag, its the mini size ? or the small one?
God bless you
xo
Trang Do says
You look awesome!! Love your new outfit!!!
Hugs,
Love from http://www.trangscorner.com {a lifestyle, fashion, beauty, and food blog}
Any says
What an amazing look! I still love your blog after so many years! You’re gorgeous. 🙂
xx,
Any | Echo Of Magic
Marie says
I am 24 years old and single too. Last year I thought that have a man and start family in my age is the most important thing ever, But things have changed i am glad that they did. I am learning to enjoy myself again and i think that i am gonna be much more prepare for the one true love,when it comes. Wish you luck in your life and also blogging.
Marianna says
Everything has a meaning, and sounds like it was meant to happen the way it did! There are always a better plan for us than we can make ourselves. 🙂 Thank you for the comment Marie!
Patty says
Hey!
Thank you for your post. It really motivated me. I’m so happy to found your blog a long time ago. Your posts always encouraged me to do what I love. Your style is really beautiful. I love your outfits and especially your hair!
I hope to read a lot from you in the future! 🙂
Marianna says
Thank you so much for all those lovely compliments Patty, you’re so sweet! 🙂
Simply Pink says
You look great in this outfit! Love the combination and I’m in love with that bag, it’s gorgeous!
As long as you’re happy with your life that’s what matters the most 🙂
xx, Sofia
simplypinkblog.blogspot.pt
Sara says
Hei! Sulla on aivan ihana tyyli ja laukku on tosi kaunis. Halusin kysyä onko toi takki villaa ja koetko että sillä tarkenee? 🙂 oon vähän miettinyt samankaltaista mutta en tiedä uskallanko talvea ajatellen.. Toki toppatakki on sitten pakkasille erikseen 🙂 Ihanaa syksyä sinulle!
Marianna says
Ei sillä kyllä kovin kylmillä ilmoilla tarkene, ellei sitten laita alle paksua villapaitaa. 🙂 Mutta se on kokonaan vuoriton, eli pakkasilmoilla se täytyy ehkä kokonaan unohtaa… Välikausitakkina ja ei niin kylmien päivien takkina loistava! Kiitos Sara, ja samaa sinnekin! 🙂
Stephanie Neely says
Beautiful outfit! Love the boots and fur scarf/collar!
I’m very happily married for 2.5 years now and as no relationship is perfect, as no person is perfect, have grace that you’re not necessarily picking the wrong guys, but every guy will be wrong until you finally get married, and even he will be wrong at times (which is why we have commitment to help wit that) ;P So don’t be too hard on yourself. Things will fall into place one day, just don’t over think it. 😉
Kudos to you for being content! It’s definitely something we all have to learn to do in every stage of life! Keep on keeping on! I’m glad you have a furry friend to keep you happy and not quite so lonely at home 😀
Marianna says
Yeah I guess so… 🙂 I’m glad to hear you’ve found your guy, seems like he’s still the one for you! Thank you so much for the comment! x
diana says
Your bag isn’t verry pretty, I mean, his price is not normal… even if it’s in gold ?
Whatever, your dog is very very cute !
Marianna says
Minnie says thank you 🙂
Stephanine says
Happy birthday, Marianna! My birthday was yesterday and I also turned 25. 🙂 Don’t you worry, we’re young.
Marianna says
Happy belated Birthday Stephanie! And thank you so much 🙂 Now may this be a good age! x
ISABEL - EL SECRETO DE MISTER CLOSET says
Good choice the collar.
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bojana says
Sooo lovely girly outfit!
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Kasia says
May your birthday and every day be filled with the warmth of sunshine, the happiness of smiles, the sounds of laughter, the feeling of love and the sharing of good cheer.:)
I love your blog:)
Marianna says
Thank you so much Kasia! 🙂 <3
Kasia says
very, very wise and true words! it is sooo nice to read something like that. There is more than one way to live our lives and be happy. Wish you luck, go girl! 🙂
Olivia says
Thanks for sharing this. When turned 25 there were a lot of things about my life I was frustrated with, but in general, I was happy to be following my own path. I didn’t worry too much about men and succeeding the way that girls at 25 are “supposed” to, I just had a dream and kept chasing it.
I am turning 28 next month. I never envisioned that making my dream of working in Japan come true would lead me to meet my husband or that we would marry after a year of living together. i get excited and a little scared about what the future holds, only because now I am considering my life with another person, i feel like I cannot live as selfishly as I did before.
My advice is to live as selfishly as you can until you have other people as responsibilities! Then you can take care of others with solace knowing that you have taken good care of yourself already. I try to keep this Audrey Hepburn quote in mind like my mantra:
“It’s that wonderful old-fashioned idea that others come first and you come second. This was the whole ethic by which I was brought up. Others matter more than you do, so ‘don’t fuss, dear; get on with it’.”
I am only following for a year and we are not friends, but reading this made me feel proud of you! I am happy to hear that you are happy with your life choices, the good and the bad. Even if I am only a reader!
steeeph says
I’ve been reading your blog for 8 years and I’ve never commented so I feel as though I should start! Firstly, Minnie is adorable!! Secondly, this is one of the best things I have read and it came at the perfect time. Everyone has some huge to-do list by the time they are 25 and it freaks me out! It’s so nice to hear that I don’t have to have my whole life sorted out by 25 🙂 It can be so difficult when my friends lives are so “on track” and mine is just kind of the same. It’s just so great to read that someone else is 25, single and super happy! Happy Birthday!! Love all your posts!
Steph xx
Ann says
Thank you for this words! I’m struggling right now because everybody seems to have a normal job around me and I’m still in the process of making decisions. I don’t want to live a boring life and nobody seems to understand that.
So here you go – living a life full of freedom and own decisions! I admire you for that!
Thank you <3
Kasia says
Thank you for this post!! I needed such strong and beautiful words! You are very mature! Happy birthday Marianna 🙂
Marianna says
<3
Perrine says
Love this outfit !
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