How I wish I could start this post with positive things, but I have to be honest. Blog has always been some sort of honest diary for me, I can’t pretend here anything. The last two days have been pure nightmare. On Wednesday evening my wallet was stolen, with all my cards, quite a lot of cash (stupid me), bunch of gift cards, the key list to my web bank account, etc… Well of course I closed my cards right away, but since the key list (not sure what it’s called) was stolen I can’t go check my account details or anything, I have to wait until Monday to know for sure everything. Yesterday was the worst, I had a reason to suspect that whoever stole it had somehow gotten access to my bank account, the ability to empty it and do whatever he/she wants. I was in pure panic all day, until late evening when I had a phone call to a person who calmed me down saying it’s 99,9% sure that hasn’t happened. All I could do all day was clean. In my pajamas. And ordered food home, thank god I had some money left on a food ordering app, since I have no money right now. Hahah what a sentence. But this will all sort itself out, most likely all I lost was just that wallet with everything inside it, and that is all just material. One more resolution for 2017: be more kind to yourself. I’ve been blaming myself for this way too much, sometimes shit just happens.
Voisinpa aloittaa postauksen positiivisemmilla jutuilla, mutta blogi on aina ollut mulle jonkunlainen päiväkirja, jonne oikeasti kirjoitan rehellisten fiilisten mukaan. Ja viimeiset kaksi päivää ovat olleet painajaista. Kaikki alkoi siitä kun lompakkoni varastettiin keskiviikkoiltana. Mikä ajoitus, edessä pyhäpäivä, sitten pitkä viikonloppu, ja odotus maanantaille kun pankit aukeavat. Ja mähän lähden sunnuntaina matkalle. Onneksi ei mennyt passia, mutta söpössä uudessa lompakossani meni vähän liian suuri määrä käteistä (tyhmä minä), kaikki maksukortit (jotka suljin heti huomattuani tämän), avainlukulista (ei sentään tunnuksia), erilaisia lahjakortteja, ties mitä. No, tämän paniikin jälkeen hieman rauhoituttuani iski eilen uusi paniikki, mulla oli syytä epäillä että varas olisi päässyt käsiksi pankkitunnuksiini. Jolloin mikä tahansa on mahdollista, niin tilin tyhjentäminen kuin lainojen ja pikavippien ja muun tekeminen. Olin koko eilisen niin paniikissa, että vaikka hoin itselleni että materiaa se vain on, en osannut rauhoittua. Siivosin koko päivän aamusta iltaan. Illalla pienen paniikkipuhelun jälkeen kuulin vakuuttelut, että tuo pankkitunnuksiini pääsy oli eräästä oudosta jutusta huolimatta 99,9% todennäköisyydellä mahdotonta. Eli nyt en enää mieti tätä, maanantaina selviää varmuudelta sitten kaikki. Ja vielähän on mahdollisuus, että maanantaina arjen koittaessa saan positiivisia uutisia, ehkä joku on jopa löytänyt lompakkoni jos se on heitetty pois/mitä tahansa, uskon vahvasti että maailmassa on enemmän rehellisiä ihmisiä. ♥
But other things: here’s today’s takeaway brekkie I ordered with that food app, there’s a crazy snowstorm outside but we made it with Minnie on our morning walk to pick this up. Matcha raw porridge, a green juice and oat milk latte. Sooo good. I have a lot to do today, so better get going. Tomorrow I’ll go on a trip with my family for one week, and you know that day before traveling, that’s when the to do list is the longest. This doesn’t feel like the best timing for a trip, but I’ll turn things around, I’m so stressed that maybe this is just good. I have to make phone call to bank right away on Monday, but I’m not gonna think about it anymore, and on that trip I’ll just try to relax. Eat, sleep, read, lay under the sunshine, take lots of picture, try to blog daily fun things, be with family.
Tässä tämän aamun aamiaista, luojan kiitos Woltissa oli mulla vielä vähän kredittejä, ja sain sentään ruokaa. Lumimyrskyssä Minnien kanssa aamulla haettiin tämä matcha tuorepuuro, kauramaitolatte ja vihermehu -setti. Niin hyvää! Eräs uusi uudenvuodenlupaus tuli tänään mieleen. Lupaus, että olisin oikeasti viimein armollisempi itselleni, enkä vain sanoisi niin. Oon syyttänyt itseäni tuosta lompakkoepisodista aivan liikaa. Välillä vaan täytyy hyväksyä, että sellaista sattuu. Jokaiselle jossain vaiheessa elämää. Ei silloin auta itsensä syyttely, jossittelu mitä olisi tehnyt toisin, jos oliskin jättänyt menemättä sinne tai olisi viivytellyt hetken tai tuollaisia pikkujuttuja. Ei auta, se sattui ja olisi voinut sattua huonomminkin. Vaikka alkuun ajattelin, että nyt huonoin sauma lähteä reissuun, ehkä tuleekin tarpeeseen.
With Minnie we’re wishing you a happy weekend. ♥
Kate says
That’s really sad. I’m sure, you’ll handle it. Did you notice the moment of stealing?
Marianna says
Thank you Kate. 🙂 No I didn’t, though when I noticed it was stolen I knew immediately when and how. x
M I L A says
Then maybe there’s hope to still file the description of the suspect to the police or something?
Really hope you feel better❤️
x Mila
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lynnychen says
Oh god, I wish you luck for Monday, that everything turns out to be as okay as it can get! Happy weekend!
Love, Lynnychen
Marianna says
I’m sure it will. Thank you so much Lynnychen, and same to you too! 🙂 x
Dixi Wonderland says
I´m so sad to hear what happen to you Marianna 🙁 If the person was using your card the bank will pay you back but I understand that you must feel stressed out 🙁 I hope your friends will come over with ice-cream (ice-cream always helps) and that everything will be okay on Monday when you can talk to the bank.
Marianna says
Yeah I’m sure everything will be just okay soon. Thank you for the sweet words Dixi! x
Agnieszka says
Marianna I’m sure that everything will be ok. I believe in karma and you are a good person so you should expect the best 😉
I hope you feel better now.
Greetings from Poland 😉
Marianna says
Aw, that really made me smile, thank you for the cheer up Agnieszka. You’re so lovely! x
Fanny says
So sorry to hear that ! That’s why I never put my credit card in my wallet. Always in an another card holder. I can’t loose everything in the same time, so scary !
Marianna says
Yeah that’s quite clever! I have to consider possibly doing that in the future. Or not just carrying much cash with me. Thank you Fanny! x
Antonia says
Oh shit thats horrible! But you will get your money back if something is missing. Main thing is that nothing happened to YOU. What a nightmare either…! Hope you’ll get your wallet back.
Marianna says
Yes I hope and believe so! And that’s true, something way worse could happen, when it’s about material things it can’t be that bad. Thank you x
Rena says
Oh, I am so sorry this happened to you. But you are right : be kind to yourself! Hopefully one the end everything turns out well.
xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena
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Marianna says
Yes I’m sure it will, on Monday I will get a peace of mind again, though there shouldn’t be anything to worry about right now. 🙂 Thank you x
La Bijoux Bella | by mia says
Oh no! That is such an unfortunate thing that happened. So sorry to hear that. You know there’s saying in the ancient Chinese proverbs “it’s rather the material thing goes than a life more matter” . I do hope all will be sorted out as soon as Monday comes. In the mean time, take care and it will be alright.
Have a beautiful day. 🙂
❤LA BIJOUX BELLA❤ | BY MIA | A Creative Lifestyle Blog
Marianna says
Yes that is true. Thank you so much Mia! <3
annnn says
Onpa perseestä suoraan sanottuna. Ja huono ajoitus 🙁 Toivon, että joku ihana on löytänyt sen ja vienyt poliisiasemalle.
annnn says
Sellainen kysymys vielä, että etkö pääse esim. mobiilipankin kautta katsomaan tilitietoja? Ainakin danske bankilla pääsee. (tätä kommenttia ei tarvitse julkaista)
Marianna says
No niinpä, toivon samaa! Mutta en pääse. 🙁 Avainlukulista tarvittaisiin siihen, ja se nyt meni lompakon mukana… Onneksi ei tunnuslukuja, eli ei varkaankaan pitäisi sinne päästä. Tuntuu niin orvolta kun ei pääse edes tarkistamaan sitä tiliä, ihankuin kaikki olis kadonnut taivaan tuuliin, vaikkei niin nyt ookaan käynyt…
Kiitos tsempeistä! <3
Jessica Duarte says
Oh dear! Unfortunately there are some not so nice people out there capable of doing these horrible things. I hope it all works out soon but most importantly, enjoy your holiday and try to take your mind off it and relax!
I hope you have an amazing time! x
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Marianna says
Yup. 🙁 Thank you so much Jessica, yes I need to do that. x
Luciana says
Sorry to hear that! Minnie looks like she wants to say “Don’t worry mommy, it will be ok” . Are you still going on vacation?
Kanerva says
Hui kamala! Varmasti säikäyttänyt ihan toden teolla 🙁
Toivotaan, että lompakkosi on tällä hetkellä jonkun rehellisen ihmisen hallussa
Mariam says
Hei Marianna, todella, todella ikävää. Saako varas sinun osoitetietosi myös? Ehkä on hyvä ilmoittaa talohuoltoon tmv. ettei asuntosi ovia saa avata kenellekään muulle kuin sinulle. Monenlaista varmaan liikkuu mielessä. Muistathan tehdä myös poliisille rikosilmoituksen. Toivottavasti matkasi ei mene harmitellessa tapahtunutta. Hyvää tätä vuotta!
Dalena says
omg i feel so sorry for you! But i believe everything’s going to be alright <3 Have a nice trip with your family! Hope you'll relax there!
Aimee says
Oh no, Marianna! I’m so sorry this happened to you! I hope you get everything worked out and feel better soon. Don’t let this ruin your fun family vacation! Enjoy!
Minna says
Onpa kurja juttu. Tiedän tapauksen, jossa varastetussa lompakossa olleita henkilöpapereita oli käytetty väärin mm. luottojen ottamiseen. Jos haluaa ottaa varman päälle, voi harkita itse asetettua luottokieltoa, joka estää tai ainakin vaikeuttaa vastaavia väärinkäytöksiä (Suomen asiakastieto Oy ja Bisnode Finland Oy). Kannattaa myös tarkistaa kotivakuutuksen ehdoista, jos kotivakuutus korvaa varkaudesta aiheutuneita kuluja (vaatinee sen, että on tehnyt varkaudesta rikosilmoituksen). Toivottavasti kaikki järjestyy.
Natali says
Oh no, I’m sorry to read all of this, but just like you said, shit happens and sometimes there’s only so little of what we can do. I hope that you’ll manage to have a good and relaxing trip despite the situation.
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Ana Carolina says
There is something I’ve been practicing a lot that is love in the present moment, without worrying about what is going to happen in the future or what happened in the past. Like you said, shit happens! Don’t let that ruin your family trip!
X
Nancy says
I hope you have a wonderful vacation! <3
Mfkf says
Toivottavasti saat vielä lompakkosi takaisin! <3 Mutta kyllä niitä ihania rehellisiäkin ihmisiä vielä on: mulla kävi niin hyvä tuuri, että kun autoa tankatessa mulle kävi se vanhanaikainen eli jätin lompakon auton katolle ja se oli pudonnut huoltoaseman lähelle niin joku oli ottanut sen talteen. Oli vielä nähnyt hirmuisen vaivan etsimällä mut facebookista ja mun poikaystävän sieltä löytämällä saanut hänen puhelinnumeronsa selville (mulla on salainen numero niin ei saanut numeropalvelusta mun omaa numeroa) ja soittanut hänelle. Sain haettua lompakon takaisin, kaikki kortit ja käteinen ym oli tallella eikä halunnut edes löytöpalkkiota 🙂 Ja en ollut ehtinyt edes itse vielä huomata lompakon katoamista!
Olga says
What kind of milk do you like most of all? Almond, coconut, oatmeal, or something else?
Olga says
And another question, Mariannа
Can I ask?
What is the composition of the products in your green smoothies?
Anne says
Hey Marianna Im so sorry to hear!
Funny thing tho, my wallet was stolen yesterday. Haha what a coincidence.
olivia says
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Marta says
I’m really sorry to hear that and it must be a horrible situation but don’t be so hard on yourself. It’s just a money. Appreciate that nothing happened to you, you’re healthy, you have home, family, Minnie. Money is just money.
Simo says
Oh dear, I’m so sorry! However you must not blame yourself, it is who stole your wallet that should be blamed (and possibly caught by the police). Unfortunately these things happen, do not worry too much, is not your fault. I wish you to spend happy quiet moments with your family 🙂
Victoria says
Aw no 🙁
That happened to me in Spain and it’s horrible to go through but it does make you realise that it’s all just material things which can be replaced. <3
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Victoria
X
Milli says
Which camera/lens do you use? Your photos are always soooo amazing! Obsessed! xxx
Joanna says
I’m so sorry sweetie! It must be terrible, my fingers are crossed for you!
Yana says
Hey, Marianna, I just understand your feelings so much! I had my wallet stolen two months ago, just before a monthly trip . And actually I’ve seen than person but was too lightminded and left the whole bag (passport, notebook, wallet — everything inside).
Felt like a part of me was missing, not the money but my personal belonging, that wallet was with me for long time.
But I tried to think about it as a fresh start — to begin with nothing, you should lose something, right? Obviously I wouldn’t like to lose job or something like that, but this was my idea to overcome the stress. I tried to remember times when you were in school and didn’t have any bank cards as a backup, just the cash your parents gave you and you need to think how much money you can spend. Again, I just decided to accept it as a funny feeling and not to think about anything lost.
Just give yourself some time for acceptance, material will always be material. But, what I learned from this situation: always have some cash at home (hidden in your underwear drawer is classic), just in case! Stupid me, at that situation I didn’t have anything at all and had to contact friends to get at least any amount of money to have.
Nina Sax says
Hey Marianna,
Sorry to hear about that, but thanks for being honest, I think that’s one of the things I like about your blog. And I think that you often get the same honesty from your readers in return 🙂
Well it’s so annoying to loose all your wallet with all your cards and things… But then maybe for next time think more wisely : don’t store your passwords there, don’t have all your cards in it. Always think : backup. Have a backup plan. Like I’m sure you gave someone your spare key, well it’s the same. Have some cash at home. and for the food… well again as I already told you 🙂 have some stuff at home to be able to prepare yourself meals for at least 2 weeks or so. I’m always impressed (and by that I mean : shocked) how people don’t have any food at home to stand a few days or weeks. What if for example electricity stops working in the whole country, and everyone gets in a panic and all shops don’t have anymore food, and everything is closed, no uber, no transportation, no “order at home” food, and so on ? Those people who even get coffee outside and take it home, would probably be the first having problems surviving 😉 Well anyway, my point is. My grandparents used to think more about making provisions, and I think it’s scary how this has changed, and especially younger people who live in the city and who don’t buy food to cook by themselves anymore.
So… I hope everything will be ok for you, and that you’ll have a new wallet, and full with all your cards again, but be more careful and have a backup plan 😉
big kiss, looking forward to see your pictures from the “warm place” :))
Deborah says
🙁 Im so sorry that hapenned to you, so stressful. I’ve had a camera stolen from inside my bag at a party, and even tho it was just a camera, it was very expensive and one of the best cameras I’ve ever had. I kept blaming myself too, because the camera was stolen while I was talking to someone and I noticed my bag opening and then I closed, but I guess they opened again. I was very distracted and felt stupid afterwards. But then a few days later I thought oh well, what can you do, I wont let this ruin my trip and my vacation. I hope you can get good new from the bank tomorrow. Be safe ♥
Lisa Autumn says
Such a cutie
xx Lisa
lisaautumn.com
Ana says
I’m sad to hear this happened to you. I think it’s less likely to happen in Finland than here, in Spain. I could see a lot of bicycles whitout padlock when I was in Helsinki, it’s a beautiful and secure city. I hope everything goes well. Sorry for my English,
Best wishes,
Ana
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